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		<title>STRATEGIC ADVANTAGE: ASSURING SURVIVAL &amp; SUCCESS!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 02:16:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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 &#8221;Bob, I can&#8217;t tell you how scary the future is!&#8221; stated Jim, CEO of a leading oil and gas process equipment engineering firm. This was said with a strong sense of anxiety. &#8220;I thought that we would have already started to come out of this economic mess. From the latest I&#8217;ve been hearing, the upcoming year is forecasted [...]]]></description>
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<p> &#8221;Bob, I can&#8217;t tell you how scary the future is!&#8221; stated Jim, CEO of a leading oil and gas process equipment engineering firm. This was said with a strong sense of anxiety. &#8220;I thought that we would have already started to come out of this economic mess. From the latest I&#8217;ve been hearing, the upcoming year is forecasted to be as challenging, if not more, given the global economy. We&#8217;ve kept outselves out of the red so far, but have an ever pressing need to assure that we come through this upcoming year with minimal damage to our ability to be on top of the recovery curve when it actually arrives! That&#8217;s my mandate from our Board!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Given that, what&#8217;s in survival and readiness for your organization?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Quite frankly I&#8217;m running out of options and that&#8217;s what I would like to explore with you. Are there any other ways I might approach this?&#8221; Jim replied.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, as you know in our coaching relationship I don&#8217;t provide advice, counseling, consulting or therapy. However, that doesn&#8217;t stop us from brainstorming some creative approaches and cherry-picking those ideas you think and feel will work for you. I&#8217;m never attached to what it is I share with you. Choose what will work for you.&#8221; I stated. &#8220;Hey, that&#8217;s just what I want!&#8221; Jim quickly responded.</p>
<p>In our following coaching exchange, a key piece discussed was to encourage Jim to step back and look at his oganization in it&#8217;s entirety. Support him in breaking it down into sub-components that could be viewed individually, but with the full understanding that each component still has a significant effect on the whole organization. A powerful framework shared with him  in our coaching conversation was <a href="http://hbr.org/product/organizational-alignment-the-7-s-model/an/497045-PDF-ENG">McKinsey &amp; Company&#8217;s 7-S Model </a>used to diagnose organizations and establish a base from which to make necessary organization design changes that would help Jim deliberately work toward assuring his firm&#8217;s strategic success.</p>
<p>Although there&#8217;s really no best approach, Jim did confide that this particular model was most helpful in ensuring the organization is in an ideal position to positively respond to the business world around it. From our conversation he learned that there are seven key aspects to his organization that are critical, maximizing his organization&#8217;s effectiveness at the individual, groups/team and system wide levels. Again, <a href="http://www.mckinsey.com/">McKinsey &amp; Company </a>referred to this model as the <a href="http://hbr.org/product/organizational-alignment-the-7-s-model/an/497045-PDF-ENG">7-S Framework </a>that was reviewed with Jim as follows.</p>
<p><strong>1.  STRATEGY</strong>:   &#8220; What are the sources of sustainable competitive advantage (e.g. cost, quality, service, technical leadership) Jim&#8217;s firm has? &#8220; What are the key strategic priorities (e.g. penetrating new markets, new product, development, speed-to-market, improving customer service) Jim&#8217;s firm has?</p>
<p><strong>2.  STRUCTURE</strong>:   &#8220; What&#8217;s the basic structural form of Jim&#8217;s firm? &#8220; How centralized or decentralized is Jim&#8217;s organization? &#8220; What is the relative status and power of each of the sub-units of Jim&#8217;s organization?</p>
<p><strong>3.  SYSTEMS</strong>:   &#8221; Does Jim&#8217;s firm have the systems it really needs to run its business (e.g., does it have a system for monitoring staff and customer satisfaction?) &#8220; What are the management systems that Jim and his executive leadership team use to run his organization? What ones do they pay the closest attention to?  Need to pay the closest attention to?</p>
<p><strong>4.  STAFFING:</strong>   &#8221; How does Jim&#8217;s organization recruit and develop its people? (e.g. formal training, coaching programs/services, stretch programs, developmental assignments, etc.) &#8220; What are the demographic characteristics of Jim&#8217;s executive leadership and lower management teams? (e.g. background, education, age, gender, nationality, professional identity, experience outside the firm, etc.) &#8220; Where are the strongest leaders found in Jim&#8217;s organization (e.g., in which functions)? The weakest? </p>
<p><strong>5.  SKILLS:</strong>   &#8221; What business activities are Jim&#8217;s organization distinctly good at performing? &#8220; What new capabilities does Jim&#8217;s organization need to develop, and which ones does it need to &#8220;unlearn,&#8221; to achieve strategic advantage and compete in the future?</p>
<p><strong>6.  STYLE:</strong>   &#8221; How does  the top leadership team make decisions? (e.g. in formal meetings, informal conversations, in the field, with staff, with customers, in product development, etc.) &#8220; What are the demographic characteristics of his leadership team? (e.g. background, education, age, gender, nationality, professional identity, experience outside of his firm, etc.) &#8220; Where are the strongest leaders found in his organization (e.g. in which functions)? The weakest?</p>
<p><strong>7.  SHARED VALUES/GUIDING PRINCIPLES:</strong>   &#8221; Do people in Jim&#8217;s organization have a shared understanding of why the firm exists? &#8220; Do people in Jim&#8217;s organization have a shared understanding of the mission/vision of the firm? &#8220; What types of issues receive the most and least attention by Jim and his executive leadership team? (e.g. short run versus long run, internal versus external, etc.) &#8220; How do people in Jim&#8217;s organization describe the ways in which his firm is distinctive? (e.g. focus on quality, emphasis on people, importance of customer satisfaction, etc .)</p>
<p>&#8220;This is exactly what I was hoping to get our of today&#8217;s coaching conversation. You don&#8217;t even have to ask me if I&#8217;m up to answering these questions and submitting them to you by our next coaching meeting.&#8221; Jim enthusiastically offered.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m quite excited for you my friend, and frankly I can&#8217;t wait to hear what you come up with and <em>how</em> you think and feel you &#8216;need to <em>be</em>&#8216; as CEO in supporting where your organization needs to go from here!&#8221;</p>
<p>I invite you, the reader, to let us know what your key &#8216;take aways&#8217;  are from this discussion with Jim. What piece(s) would you like to personally cherry-pick and run with. As always, I&#8217;d love to hear your reactions and contributions to this coaching discussion. Take care!</p>
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		<title>TRANSITIONING NEW ROLE SENIOR LEADERS: HOW CAN WE DO IT BETTER?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 20:48:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev Benwick</dc:creator>
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Any transition to a new role, while exciting and an acknowledgement of what the organization thinks of you, is a time of anxiety for every newly transitioning leader.
A few of the common errors of a new role leader include trying to do too much too soon, failure to understand the de facto culture/sub-culture, and/or misinterpreting [...]]]></description>
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<p>Any transition to a new role, while exciting and an acknowledgement of what the organization thinks of you, is a time of anxiety for every newly transitioning leader.<br />
A few of the common errors of a new role leader include trying to do too much too soon, failure to understand the de facto culture/sub-culture, and/or misinterpreting the expectations of their superior. Danger lurks ahead….. in the form of mistrust by others, leader fatigue, compounding anxiety with over preparation, and possibly the creation of an unsafe environment for employees.</p>
<p>As stress intensifies for the new role leader, can you really be making the best decisions for the organization as a whole, your team and yourself?</p>
<p>Stress has a tremendous effect on performance levels, particularly at a time when a leader is under the magnifying glass. Stress studies have demonstrated that it&#8217;s effect alters the ability to learn, to remain agile, and to make effective decisions.</p>
<p>I have worked with leaders who admitted that they have hardly slept in three months and leaders who existed on a pop and pizza diet. It is rewarding as an executive coach to support leaders in these circumstances and be part of the process that allows them to gain back a feeling of balance and control, rewarding them with restful nights rather than a continuum of midnight note taking sessions.</p>
<p>With invested and targeted support, these leaders can bring about greater contribution to the organization in a shortened time frame as they learn to manage their stress, embrace the transition, garner early credibility and move powerfully forward with their leadership.</p>
<p>What is the cost to an organization of not readily investing in the transitioning new role leader?  This is not just about the leader&#8217;s transition. You have to take into consideration the transitional impact on those who surround the leader and the cost to the organization when their performance falters as a result of how the new role leader shows up for others.</p>
<p>Some thoughts for effectively supporting senior leader new role transitions in your organization:</p>
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<li>Identify communication gaps and improve communication of support and development programs</li>
<li>Appoint an &#8220;ambassador of programs&#8221; who can effectively inform, steer, co-design, and co-manage a transitioning individual&#8217;s action plan</li>
<li>Gain commitment of senior leaders to provide face-to-face time with newly promoted leaders, ensuring relationship building, clarity of expectations, and constructive feedback sessions </li>
<li>Provide senior leadership networking opportunities </li>
<li>Encourage formal and/or informal mentorship </li>
<li>Ensure strategic alignment to the overall succession strategy of your organization </li>
<li>Utilize psychometric assessments in the early stages to increase leader&#8217;s self awareness </li>
<li>Design or contract for an accelerated leadership transitioning program that can be self-directed and facilitated by an executive/leadership coach </li>
<li>Implement usage of a senior leadership 360° assessment for a transitioning leader at an 18-month interval, with a smaller version of the assessment redone at 24 months.</li>
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<p>Can your organization afford to falter in its role to more effectively support transitioning leaders? Is there an opportunity to step back from the status quo and examine the question: How could we transition our new role leaders better and assure their and our organization&#8217;s success? Let me know how you feel and what you think. Take care.</p>
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		<title>BIG OR SMALL?: THE LEADER&#8217;S CHOICE!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 23:38:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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It&#8217;s not unusual in our executive coaching to come across comments such as &#8220;I&#8217;m fed up with his micromanaging!&#8221;, &#8220;I want to make sure they do it right!&#8221;, &#8220;I need to make sure my group doesn&#8217;t make any mistakes!&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;m tired of solving everyone else&#8217;s problems!&#8221;, &#8220;I have to stay on top of them!&#8221;, &#8220;As [...]]]></description>
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<p>It&#8217;s not unusual in our executive coaching to come across comments such as &#8220;I&#8217;m fed up with his micromanaging!&#8221;, &#8220;I want to make sure they do it right!&#8221;, &#8220;I need to make sure my group doesn&#8217;t make any mistakes!&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;m tired of solving everyone else&#8217;s problems!&#8221;, &#8220;I have to stay on top of them!&#8221;, &#8220;As the head of this organization, I&#8217;m getting exhausted working 24/7!&#8221;. The litany of comments like this are endless.</p>
<p>We find that leaders often don&#8217;t hold their people &#8216;Big&#8217;. Allowing their staff to tackle the concerns they own and to learn from the consequences of their decisions, using this learning to grow, become even stronger performers and contributors, and as a result more satisfied.</p>
<p>What happens more often than not is that the leaders not only holds themselves &#8216;Small&#8217;, unfortunately they also hold their people &#8216;Small&#8217;. Meaning, they interfere by giving them &#8217;solutions&#8217; to their presenting problems, not allowing them to stumble, fall, get up and try it again until they successfully work it out, allowing them to mature as individuals and professionals.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s similar to raising a child. If you insist on ensuring they not run, fall, eat a little dirt, bump their heads, experience life . . . what normal kids do . . . this will only contribute to retarding their growth and development. We&#8217;re not talking about letting them get into serious trouble. That&#8217;s a given.</p>
<p>Rather, it&#8217;s about letting them experience normal day-to-day challenges and allowing them to learn from the consequences of their choices. From these life experiences they mature and grow into healthy, reasonably well balanced adults (god willing).</p>
<p>The same is true for leaders working with their staff. The choice is about either holding people &#8216;Big&#8217; or holding them &#8216;Small&#8217;. The benefits of the former are clearly obvious once we think about leadership in this way.</p>
<p>Recently a good friend and colleague, <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/about-us">Jake Jacobs</a>, and I had a discussion on this very topic. Jake is a leader in the field of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Organization_development">organization development</a>, a noted author of cutting edge <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/books">books on large-scale real-time strategic change</a> and the Principal of <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/">The Winds of Change Group </a>out of Marina del Rey, California. We continue having very rich conversations around potential synergies between Jake&#8217;s large-scale work and our executive/corporate coaching. You&#8217;re invited to listen to our most recent conversation on the subject of leaders holding their people &#8216;Big&#8217; or &#8216;Small&#8217;. Enjoy!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/Bob%20Beckwith%20Audio%20interview.mp3"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-819" title="Bev RRU Group Picture image001" src="http://blog.rwbenwick.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Bev-RRU-Group-Picture-image001.jpg" alt="Bev RRU Group Picture image001" width="77" height="51" />    Click here to listen to our discussion!</a></p>
<p> What&#8217;s been your experience on this? What are your insights? How might you leverage your learning? What is it you would like to do with this? We always enjoy getting your thought and feelings. Take care!</p>
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		<title>IN THE GRIP: BACK AGAINST THE WALL?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 02:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev and Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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We often work with executives and leaders who experience enormous amounts of stress at work. As they say, &#8216;the closer to the top you get, the closer to the door you get&#8217;. In the compensation world, their total compensation is influenced by the size of the ulcers that go with the job. It&#8217;s also referred [...]]]></description>
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<p>We often work with executives and leaders who experience enormous amounts of stress at work. As they say, &#8216;the closer to the top you get, the closer to the door you get&#8217;. In the compensation world, their total compensation is influenced by the size of the ulcers that go with the job. It&#8217;s also referred to as being in the grip. We&#8217;re sure you&#8217;ve  gotten our point .</p>
<p><a href="http://www.capt.org/catalog/author-book-Naomi%20L.%20Quenk.htm">Naomi Quenk </a>wrote a wonderful primer called <a href="http://www.capt.org/catalog/MBTI-Book-30034.htm">&#8216;In the Grip: Understanding Type, Stress, and the Inferior Function&#8217; </a>based on the personality type theory developed by Swiss psychiatrist <a href="http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/jung.html">Carl Gustav Jung</a>. As Naomi mention&#8217;s in her work, Jung&#8217;s theory was refined and put into accessible form by <a href="http://www.capt.org/mbti-assessment/isabel-myers.htm">Isabel Briggs Myers </a>and <a href="http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/isabel-briggs-myers.asp">Katharine Briggs</a>, who developed the <a href="http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/">Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® (MBTI®) personality inventory</a>.</p>
<p>As part of working with and addressing the issues when each of us feels caught In the Grip, it behooves us to take a little time to answer some questions. Being completely authentic and honest with yourself goes a long way in helping you deepen your understanding of the way you think, behave and remedy the causes that trigger in the grip  reactions. When you partner with a qualified executive coach, you&#8217;ll receive amazing insights and the ability to extricate yourself from this potentially devastating situation.</p>
<p>Naomi puts forward that there may very well be times when you feel or behave quite differently from the way you normally do. In other words, the way you see and react to everyday events at work is so unlike you that others you work with would describe you as &#8220;not being yourself,&#8221; &#8220;someone else&#8221; or simply &#8220;in the grip&#8221;. So here&#8217;s the invitation, try to think about how you are when you are most like yourself and how you are different when you are least like yourself by answering the following suggested questions from Naomi:</p>
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<li> <em>What are you like when you are most yourself? That is, what qualities best describe you or define you as an individual? For example, you might describe yourself as typically optimistic, careful with details, concerned about others, future oriented, and so on.  </em></li>
<li><em>What are you like when you are not yourself-how are you different from your usual way of being?  </em></li>
<li><em>What events or circumstances are likely to provoke the reactions and changes you experience?  </em></li>
<li><em>What can you or others do to help the return process?  </em></li>
<li><em>What can you or others do to hinder the return process?  </em></li>
<li><em>What aspects of your work life are most satisfying and energizing?  </em></li>
<li><em>What aspects of your work life are most dissatisfying and stressful?  </em></li>
<li><em>How do you typically deal with chronic stress?   </em></li>
<li><em>What new things have you learned about yourself as a result of your out-of-character experiences?</em></li>
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<p>We have worked with many executive clients who have successfully addressed being caught in the grip.  Because of the great results  they&#8217;ve been able to experience, we thought you too would find the foregoing of interest. What was your take away? On a scale of 1 &#8211; 10 where is your stress level (1 = none, 10 = let me out of here!)? What&#8217;s your next step? We would enjoy hearing your thoughts and feelings. Take care.</p>
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		<title>REASON FOR LEAVING?: OUCH!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 01:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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With Christmas coming up, Justin, a client who had been a senior executive with a leading hi-tech firm,  raised a big concern now that he is  &#8217;between jobs&#8217;. &#8220;I&#8217;m not really sure what to say when I connect with colleagues, friends and family over the holiday and I&#8217;m asked something like &#8220;So whats happening Justin? What [...]]]></description>
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<p>With Christmas coming up, Justin, a client who had been a senior executive with a leading hi-tech firm,  raised a big concern now that he is  &#8217;between jobs&#8217;. &#8220;I&#8217;m not really sure what to say when I connect with colleagues, friends and family over the holiday and I&#8217;m asked something like &#8220;So whats happening Justin? What happened with your job?&#8221; I know I&#8217;ll probably hear this question a number of times!&#8221; Justin was just starting up his job search. It was obviously quite important for him to be able to handle this question with confidence, no matter who would be asking him.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what is it you feel you want to do when these questions come up?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Well, I definitely want to respond to them truthfully, make sure what I say is acceptable, particularly when I&#8217;m in interviews.  I&#8217;ll need to respond truthfully and in a way that&#8217;s acceptable to my former and prospective employers.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Sounds good. Would developing a statement that briefly explains your reason for leaving make sense?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Absolutely, I&#8217;m quite anxious to be ready and able to deal with any questions like these that may come up.&#8221; Justin responded.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well whatever it is you develop, I invite you to make sure it&#8217;s short and to the point! I&#8217;d also encourage you to discuss what you do create with your wife and other family members, or anyone else for that matter close to you, as they will likely run into other associates, colleagues, and important people in your network and be confronted with the same question, &#8220;What happened with Justin?&#8221; In this way they can respond as comfortably as you and make it a lot easier to take care of these situations and support you by sharing a consistent and positive message.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;So when you&#8217;re trying to develop your statement, what are the key points you believe you need to consider?&#8221; I then asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well whatever I come up with, I think needs to be short and to the point! I also feel it should be as positive as I can make it.&#8221; he responded.</p>
<p>&#8220;I believe you&#8217;re right on. There&#8217;s another key point that I would throw in for your consideration. Try to ensure that whatever you do come up with is not only truthful but very easy to explain&#8221; I went on.</p>
<p>&#8220;What are some of the<em> key reasons for leaving</em> you&#8217;ve come across with some of your other clients who&#8217;ve faced the same challenge?&#8221; asked Justin.</p>
<p>&#8220;Hmmm . . .  some of them included the existence of different leadership style, a new boss with a different operating approach, restructuring, downsizing, reorganization, a substantively changed role, buyout. These are a few very legitimate reasons that have been shared with me.&#8221; was my observation.</p>
<p>Finishing off our coaching session, &#8220;My request of you is to begin drafting your own <em>reason for leaving statement</em> by starting to jot down some of the key points you would like to include in it and then let&#8217;s take some time in next week&#8217;s scheduled coaching session to review your draft and flesh it out. Will that work?&#8221;  &#8220;I&#8217;m thinking about it already!&#8221; Justin responded anxiously.</p>
<p>I know you&#8217;re more than capable of coming up with a solid reason for leaving  statement. Once done, you&#8217;ll be able to use it as part of your <em>Personal Commercial</em> when in information-referral meetings, engaged in strategic networking, in employment interviews . . . the opportunities will be endless until you nail down the opportunity you really want.&#8221;, I went on, &#8221;It&#8217;s not if, it&#8217;s when it will happen. Trust me.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;OK, what&#8217;s a <em>Personal Commercial</em>?&#8221; Justin put forward. I ended our conversation &#8220;We&#8217;ll visit that at our next meeting as well. In the meantime my friend, you and yours have a happy holiday! Take a good rest because you&#8217;ve got a lot of work ahead of you with <em>success</em> definitely at the end of it!&#8221;</p>
<p>What were the gold nuggets for you in this coaching discussion? If you were coaching Justin, what would you have asked him?</p>
<p>By the way, if you or someone you know is currently in the midst of a career transition experience and are one of the ready few who would like to join an exclusive coaching group of like minded members focused on being in service of each other&#8217;s future success and fulfillment, then  go to <a href="http://www.rwbenwick.com/ebrochure/ebrochure.html">Exclusive Group Coaching </a>or call us at 1.866.952.6224. We&#8217;re there for you. Take care.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 08:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev and Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 19:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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Every now and then a gift is given to the world, and that is just what Paul Hawken gave us in an unforgettable commencement address to the Class of 2009, at the University of Portland. It was recently passed on to me and I want to gift it forward so you too can enjoy his powerful message. Enjoy.
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<p>Every now and then a gift is given to the world, and that is just what <a href="http://www.paulhawken.com/paulhawken_frameset.html ">Paul Hawken</a> gave us in an unforgettable commencement address to the Class of 2009, at the University of Portland. It was recently passed on to me and I want to gift it forward so you too can enjoy his powerful message. Enjoy.</p>
<p><em>“When I was invited to give this speech, I was asked if I could give a simple short talk that was &#8220;direct, naked, taut, honest, passionate, lean, shivering, startling, and graceful.&#8221; No pressure there.</em></p>
<p><em>Let&#8217;s begin with the startling part. Class of 2009: you are going to have to figure out what it means to be a human being on earth at a time when every living system is declining, and the rate of decline is accelerating. Kind of a mind-boggling situation . . . but not one peer-reviewed paper published in the last thirty years can refute that statement. Basically, civilization needs a new operating system, you are the programmers, and we need it within a few decades.</em></p>
<p><em>This planet came with a set of instructions, but we seem to have misplaced them. Important rules like don&#8217;t poison the water, soil or air, don&#8217;t let the earth get overcrowded, and don&#8217;t touch the thermostat have been broken. Buckminster Fuller said that spaceship earth was so ingeniously designed that no one has a clue that we are on one, flying through the universe at a million miles per hour, with no need for seat-belts, lots of room in coach, and really good food &#8211; but all that is changing</em></p>
<p><em>There is invisible writing on the back of the diploma you will receive, and in case you didn&#8217;t bring lemon juice to decode it, I can tell you what it says: You are Brilliant and the Earth is Hiring. The earth couldn&#8217;t afford to send recruiters or limos to your school. It sent you rain, sunsets, ripe cherries, night blooming jasmine, and that unbelievably cute person you are dating. Take the hint. And here&#8217;s the deal: Forget that this task of planet-saving is not possible in the time required. Don&#8217;t be put off by people who know what is not possible. Do what needs to be done, and check to see if it was impossible only after you are done.”.  For the rest of the address go to </em><a href="http://youarebrilliant.org/"><em>http://youarebrilliant.org/</em></a><em>. “</em> It is well worth the few additional minutes to read the balance of this wonderful commencement address. Then I invite you to gift it forward!</p>
<p>Paul Hawken is a noted visionary and entrepreneur whose many books can be found on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Paul-Hawken/e/B000APTSBC/ref=ntt_athr_dp_pel_1 ">Amazon.com</a>. We would enjoy hearing what your gold nuggets are from reading his comments and observations. Who are you becoming? What are you willing to change? What’s next?</p>
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		<title>ESCALATING COMMITMENT: A LEADER&#8217;S ACHILLES HEEL!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe what he&#8217;s doing! We had an understanding within our leadership group that essentially says that if any of us, including our boss, were to consider making decisions that directly impact the rest of us, we would consult with each other first. The whole idea was to assure understanding, ownership and the opportunity [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe what he&#8217;s doing! We had an understanding within our leadership group that essentially says that if any of us, including our boss, were to consider making decisions that directly impact the rest of us, we would consult with each other first. The whole idea was to assure understanding, ownership and the opportunity to increase chances of success for any initiatives we advanced in our organization. Damn it, did that ever change.&#8221; said Kathy, the Chief Information Technology officer of a large software development firm.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what happened?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Well he just went out and hired a new Human Resource Director without touching base with any of us. Not only that, the individual has now been with us eleven months and has been a total net drain on our resources instead of being a net contributor. We&#8217;ve tried to go for a &#8216;walk in the desert with Mike, our CEO, but he seems to be avoiding the blinding glimpse of the obvious for the rest of the leadership team.&#8221; Kathy then emphatically stated, &#8220;It&#8217;s just not working out and Mike just doesn&#8217;t see it!&#8221;</p>
<p>It sounds like a possible example of &#8216;escalating commitment&#8217; on Mike&#8217;s part.&#8221; I responded. &#8220;Can you tell me more about what you mean?&#8221; Kathy asked. &#8220;Well,&#8221; I went on, &#8220;It would appear that Mike has made a decision to hire this person based on what clearly seemed very rational to him at the time. Unfortunately, he didn&#8217;t consult with you and the rest of the leadership team to assure the successful transition for the individual into your organization as would have normally been expected. This apparent lack of expected consultation has exacerbated the situation.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Does this make any sense so far?&#8221; I inquired. &#8220;Absolutely&#8221;, Kathy replied, &#8220;Please go on.&#8221;  &#8221;Given what you&#8217;ve shared thus far about the HR Director&#8217;s performance to date and her inability to fit in with your team, Mike has continued to escalate his commitment to the original decision even though things have changed considerably.&#8221; I then asked, &#8220;What do you think is behind this given your knowledge of Mike and the situation?&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;Personally&#8221;, Kathy went on, &#8220;I feel Mike&#8217;s ego has gotten in his way and he&#8217;s simply digging the hole deeper for himself and the HR Director. If he doesn&#8217;t get on top of this, and soon, he will lose a lot of credibility with the rest of the team . . . not to mention his boss Frank. I think the rest of the team feels that what Mike really needs to do now is to stop sinking any deeper before it&#8217;s too late, pull the plug out, get back on hard ground by revisiting his decision given the changed circumstances. It would not only be fair to the organization, to Mike himself, but particularly to the individual in question who is no doubt experiencing a lot of pain and anguish herself.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Given your thoughts and feelings so far, what is it you think needs to be done?&#8221; I asked Kathy. &#8220;It&#8217;s pretty clear that a number of us need to connect with Mike and encourage him in a very honest and supportive way to address this directly and create some kind of win-win solution for the organization and the individual before it deteriorates any further.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;By when I asked.&#8221; &#8220;Given the sense of urgency, we need to do this by the end of the week.&#8221; &#8220;How will &#8216;we&#8217; know it&#8217;s been done in follow up?&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;ll send you an email right after we meet with Mike. Will that work?&#8221; Kathy quickly responded. &#8220;Sounds like a plan to me my friend. Let me know if I can be of further service in your making this happen successfully.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;By the way, what&#8217;s the concept we just talked about called? It clearly described this situation in a nut-shell.&#8221; asked Kathy. &#8220;It sometimes referred to as <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Escalation_of_commitment">&#8216;escalation of commitment&#8217; </a>or &#8216;irrational escalation&#8217;, as well as &#8216;commitment bias,&#8221; I shared.</p>
<p>Have you observed escalating commitment in your organization? Is this a personal Achilles Heal? Your observations and opinions are most valued.</p>
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		<title>HEALTHY CARING IS: AUTHENTIC LEADERSHIP!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 04:58:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;I really don&#8217;t like doing it!&#8221; claimed Frank, the Senior Vice President, Business Development with a large corporate leader in the energy business. &#8220;Doing what?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Control. I hate finding myself in the position to have to control my direct reports. It just doesn&#8217;t feel right.&#8221;
&#8220;So what do you want to do?&#8221; was my [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I really don&#8217;t like doing it!&#8221; claimed Frank, the Senior Vice President, Business Development with a large corporate leader in the energy business. &#8220;Doing what?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Control. I hate finding myself in the position to have to control my direct reports. It just doesn&#8217;t feel right.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;So what do you want to do?&#8221; was my response. &#8220;There must be some other way!&#8221; Frank said in frustration (always a green light for my executive coaching). &#8220;Do you remember when we talked about the four key components of management a few weeks ago?&#8221; I inquired. &#8220;Yeah, I do&#8221; stated Frank. &#8220;So what were they?&#8221; I followed up.</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, if I can remember the first was good old planning. Then, I believe the next was getting organized around supporting the plan. Oh yeah, next was leading. This is about truly caring and creating the environment for my troops so that they become more motivated to make it all successfully happen, thus driving up their work effort resulting in high quality performance . The last component was about control. OK, now I remember, it&#8217;s about controlling the plan, not my people. I know you really emphasized this last piece when we previously discussed this. Man, I&#8217;ve got to really get this into the marrow of my leadership bones. It&#8217;s about controlling the plan and <em>motivating</em> my people!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Great on you my friend for getting this clear. Around the motivating piece, here&#8217;s a small gift that might help you. As I&#8217;ve said many times in our past coaching conversations, you can either keep it or throw it in the garbage. I&#8217;m never attached to gifts given to you. This particular one has worked well for both myself and many of my executive clients. By the way, I&#8217;ve been unable to identify who the author of this is, but here it goes.&#8221; </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><strong>HEALTHY CARING IS</strong>  </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I can listen to you without interrupting</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">Because I am in a working relationship with you, I choose to listen to you and see how my behavior impacts you  </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I will not control and manipulate you to get what I want</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I will not punish you for saying &#8220;no&#8221; to me  </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I will not fear your rejection. I understand that &#8220;no&#8221; to me is a &#8220;yes&#8221; to you. I truly care about you. I want you to take care of yourself  </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">If you end up leaving our group . . . the organization . . . I will experience definite discomfort and I know that I, we, can still be satisfied here without your valued support </p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I will not ask you to give up who you are to be cared by me</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">Your security, satisfaction and development will be as important to me as my security, satisfaction and development</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">I will not try to take away your feelings or rob you of them so I can be comfortable</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So there you have it dear reader, all of us are continually in choice as to how we relate! So what was the blinding glimpse of the obvious for you, your team, your organization in the above? I would love to hear your thoughts and gain your perspective. Thank you for taking the time to read this.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 03:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;My boss has unbelievable expectations!&#8221; &#8220; Nobody in my group is stepping up and I&#8217;m having to carry the day constantly!&#8221; &#8220; The economy has gone to hell in a hand-basket and I&#8217;m forced by the organization to work 24 &#8211; 7 !&#8221; &#8220; My clients are pushing back hard on our rates and they just don&#8217;t understand [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;My boss has unbelievable expectations!&#8221; &#8220; Nobody in my group is stepping up and I&#8217;m having to carry the day constantly!&#8221; &#8220; The economy has gone to hell in a hand-basket and I&#8217;m forced by the organization to work 24 &#8211; 7 !&#8221; &#8220; My clients are pushing back hard on our rates and they just don&#8217;t understand what it takes to service them!&#8221;  These and similar comments are shared with us in our executive coaching more often than you may believe.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s simply one perspective our client has chosen. Although they don&#8217;t know it, they <em>can</em> create and chose other perspectives on the situation they&#8217;re wrestling with at any time. They simply are not aware that they are always in choice each and every nano-second of their lives and that includes alternatve ways to view and address their presenting circumstances.</p>
<p>Often, one of the key reasons our executive clients come to executive coaching  is to engage a competent partner who will be of service in their further developing the ability to powerfully create , understand and position themselves to choose other perspectives regarding the same issue.  Then they can decide what <em>they</em> want to do about it, by when and what success would look like when they hold themselves accountable for making it happen.</p>
<p>In the meantime they have chosen the <em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle">victim </a></em>perspective and as a result  simply get <em><a href="http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/get_stuck">stuck</a></em> there. This can be very disconcerting.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nealedonaldwalsch.com/index.php?p=About">Neil Donald Walsh</a> wrote the following on being a victim. It&#8217;s a superb observation on this common personal dilemma. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">A VICTIM </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Nothing happens</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">that  you do not want to have happen. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Nothing! </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">You can imagine that things happen </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">that you do not want to happen, </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">but this is not what is so, </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">and it merely allows you </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">to think of yourself as a victim. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Nothing holds you back</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">  in your evolution </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">more than this single thought. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The idea of victimization </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">is a certain sign </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">of limited perception, </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">True victimization </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">cannot exist! </p>
<p>So do you see yourself as victim from time to time? What are the alternative perspectives? Which do you choose . . . to be a victim or . . . . . . (you fill in the blank)? Remember it&#8217;s all about <em>you</em>, it&#8217;s not about <em>them</em>! I&#8217;d love to hear your observations, reactions and/or insights. Have a wonderful day!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 02:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev and Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;Can you look into developing an approach that can help us drive down coaching to lower levels in our organization at a price point that would be feasible?&#8221; is an inquiry we&#8217;ve received over the years from a number of our corporate clients. This started our global quest to benchmark and research the best practices in order [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Can you look into developing an approach that can help us drive down coaching to lower levels in our organization at a price point that would be feasible?&#8221; is an inquiry we&#8217;ve received over the years from a number of our corporate clients. This started our global quest to benchmark and research the best practices in order to design, develop and now make available an &#8216;Exclusive Group Coaching&#8217; service that is only for the few who are ready to join a select group of like-minded executives, managers, and professionals who truly want to integrate and take their careers and lives to more meaningful, successful and fulfilled levels. We&#8217;re extremely satisfied that we&#8217;ve now achieved this.</p>
<p>So what are the benefits of our Exclusive Group Coaching service? They include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Obtaining exactly what you need to assure your professional success</li>
<li>Accelerating achievement of what you really want with affordability </li>
<li>Collaborating with a powerful group of like minded professionals </li>
<li>Collectively establishing and quickly advancing your own agenda</li>
<li>Being truly listened to, heard, acknowledged and championed </li>
<li>Creating and sustaining your professional and personal aspirations</li>
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<p>What are the deliverables you can expect? These include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Collectively co-creating highly relevant real-time group coaching agendas</li>
<li>Being part of an exclusive affinity group of professionals that care </li>
<li>Sharing valuable insights, experiences, wisdom and key resources </li>
<li>Learning how to become an even more powerful leader-coach</li>
<li>Creating an oasis of sanity &amp; opportunity for yourself twice each month</li>
<li>Deepening commitment to personal, professional &amp; organizational goals</li>
<li>Being fully supported by globally experienced master group coach/facilitators</li>
</ul>
<p>What is the process for joining an exclusive coaching group? It is simple, easy and involves:</p>
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<li>Choosing the group you would like to join by calling 1.866.952.6224 or 1.604.576.4970, or emailing <a href="mailto:info@rwbenwick.com">info@rwbenwick.com</a>  </li>
<li>Registering directly on-line (<a href="http://www.rwbenwick.com">http://www.rwbenwick.com</a>)</li>
<li>Planning to regularly meet for one hour, twice a month with the group you choose or you wish to create</li>
<li>Simply use the free teleconference number &amp; password subsequently provided  </li>
<li>Individual Laser Coaching support is also available between meetings</li>
<li>Your Exclusive Coaching Group will number between 6 &#8211; 10 people within your chosen peer group (Presidents/CEOs, Vice Presidents/General Managers, Directors/Managers, Project Managers. </li>
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<p>We&#8217;re very excited about the plan to introduce the foregoing  through readily accessible free group coaching teleconferences scheduled for October/November, 2009. This will allow you to both experience group coaching real-time and also have any questions of clarification answered. The next exclusive coaching group start-ups are scheduled for January/February 2010.</p>
<p>What do you think of this coaching service approach?  How important do you think this offering would be to you? To others? To your industry? To your organization? What steps do you want to take next? We would love to hear your observations, reactions and/or insights. Have a wonderful day!</p>
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		<title>30,000 FOOT VIEW: STRATEGIC THINKING!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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“To manage strategy is to craft thought and action, control and learning, stability and change.” , claims Henry Mintzberg, a thought leader in the field of management. I shared this quote with Barb, a client with a large financial organization who wanted to expand her strategic thinking capabililty as a result of a 360 degree [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>“To manage strategy is to craft thought and action, control and learning, stability and change.” , c</em>laims <a href="http://www.henrymintzberg.com/">Henry Mintzberg</a>, a thought leader in the field of management. I shared this quote with Barb, a client with a large financial organization who wanted to expand her strategic thinking capabililty as a result of a 360 degree feedback exercise that she had been recently engaged in.  </p>
<p>Barb had been left with the assignment of researching the subject of strategic thinking in support of her desire to deepen her awareness of the subject and to strengthen her competency in this area.  </p>
<p>“So what did you come up with?” I asked. She responded with considerable pride over the phone, “Well, it’s basically about my abililty to understand my organization&#8217;s strengths and weaknesses, being in the position to clarify whatever opportunities and threats that exist in the market we&#8217;re operating in, as well as being able to identify trends and opportunities that can help us enhance my organization&#8217;s business performance, and as a result be able to provide us with a clear focus and direction for what we need to make happen . . .  organization wide, within our operating units, and right down to each staff member. Like thinking and operating at the 30,000 foot level.”  “Superb!” I responded.  </p>
<p>”So what’s another other way of looking at strategic thinking?” I continued. “Well, based on what I’ve been able to dig up it could also be looked at as a way of getting clear as to where we are as an organization, where we want to be, and how we’ll get there from here. I’ve concluded that having a written strategic plan is not really the end-all, but rather a benefit of the strategic thinking which has created a collective understanding of our business—now and in the future—and just as importantly, among a critical mass of our people. It&#8217;s about being smart about allocating our limited resources toward achieving our collectively crafted strategy.”</p>
<p>“You’ve clearly done your homework Barb. Great on you! I can’t wait to hear more. And on that note, what’s in the importance of strategic thinking for you personally?” I asked her.</p>
<p>“That’s pretty easy.” Barb said,  “First I’ve discovered that it gives me a solid foundation and context for developing our overall strategies, goals, objectives, action plans, decisions and daily actions that we can individually and collectively take from moment to moment. Particularly when our people have actually been involved in its initial creation. It helps us all focus on our customers and their needs. Oh yeah, it also helps us to be in a much stronger position to anticipate and respond to the unbelievable changes every organization is experiencing these days! Bottom line, it positions us to specifically define our short- to long-term competitive position so that we come out of the current economic mess on a wave of success.”  </p>
<p>“Well given what you’ve discovered from your homework, when do you think you’d use these strategic thinking competency muscles you’re developing?” I asked her.</p>
<p>“Well, as I’ve inferred already, our business climate is changing so darn rapidly that we, I, need to continually contribute to the ongoing reassessment of our strategies and tactics and make sure they’re constantly being revised quick enough to respond to these whitewater conditions. It’s a mad house out there right now, not to mention our competitors are making constant moves that we need to turn-on-a-dime and respond to!”  </p>
<p>“Ok, that makes complete sense. For you, what’s the connection between strategic thinking and strategic planning?” I asked.</p>
<p>Always quick on her feet, Barb shared, “Basically they go hand in hand. <a href="http://www.isc.hbs.edu/">Michael Porter</a> has written some great stuff around strategic planning typically at the portfolio, business and functional levels. I found out that there’s a whole framework for strategic thinking and planning. Do you want to hear more?”</p>
<p>“Unfortunately there’s not much time left in our call for that, but I’ve got a few more questions to quickly  ask you though. What is it that you might do Barb to enhance your strategic thinking muscles?” </p>
<p>“Actually there are a few things I could do.&#8221; She said. &#8220;Starting with my own division, this might include:  </p>
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<li>conducting a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SWOT_analysis">SWOT</a> analysis of my division’s internal (strengths, weaknesses) and external (opportunities, and threats) environment.</li>
<li>Identifying key performance indicators to monitor our progress toward achieving my division’s strategy.</li>
<li>clarifying what opportunities we will <em>not</em> pursue, making sure we put our limited resources in those fires with the highest payoffs, because I’ve concluded from what I’ve read that the true essence of strategy is in fact denial!</li>
<li>clarifying the needs and expectations of our key internal and external constituencies.</li>
<li>clarifying what our division really needs to look like in the future in order to outperform our competition, and they’re fierce; here I’m referring to our vision.</li>
<li>once we’ve done this, we can then selectively allocate sufficient resources behind the strategy we’ve come up with.</li>
<li>its critical that as we move forward with this we be open to new information that may require a shift in our thinking.</li>
<li>last, but definitely not least, make sure we’ve got our folks at every level continuously taking a hard look at how attractive our industry continues to be and our own competitive position with a focus on improving the quality of our overall assessment and thereby assuring maximum buy-in and commitment to our resulting strategy by our people. How’s that?”</li>
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<p> “I’m truly impressed my friend. Can I arrange to have you join my upcoming university class in Management when I teach the Strategic Management section?” I asked. Barb responded with a curt, “Sure, as long as you pay for my flight  and accommodation from Dallas.”   </p>
<p>Barb had made the commitment to strengthening her strategic thinking competency based on the invitation from those who had participated in her 360 feedback exercise and had clearly done a wonderful job of doing just that. She&#8217;s clearly well on her way from not only becoming good at being a strong strategic thinker, but also becoming great at this critical leadership competency.</p>
<p>Is this a leadership competency you would like to enhance? What strength do you have that will help you become even more effective in your leadership role? What aspect might hold you back? I’d love to hear your feelings and thoughts on the subject. Take care.</p>
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		<title>MANURE IN THE SYSTEM: THE ANGRY LEADER!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe those people. They just don&#8217;t get it!&#8221; was the response of my executive coaching client, Gerry, who heads up a key line of business with a leading defense contractor. I typically start off coaching conversations with a check-in question. After listening to Gerry further, I asked &#8220;So what&#8217;s in the anger my [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe those people. They just don&#8217;t get it!&#8221; was the response of my executive coaching client, Gerry, who heads up a key line of business with a leading defense contractor. I typically start off coaching conversations with a check-in question. After listening to Gerry further, I asked &#8220;So what&#8217;s in the anger my friend?&#8221; For a moment there was silence on the phone. I had learned long ago to always let silence do the heavy lifting! &#8220;Hmmm . . . , &#8221; he expressed and then went on, &#8220;I really resent the fact that we had agreed on what had to be accomplished last week, and they haven&#8217;t even started on it. It&#8217;s simply damned unacceptable. I really feel let down. I could tear my office door off the hinges right now. I&#8217;m going into a meeting with them shortly and I think I&#8217;m going to straighten them out . . . make them new rear ends if I have to!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well before you charge on in, are you game to take a few minutes to step back and take a look at what&#8217;s happening with you right now?&#8221; I asked. Gerry, to his credit had always been very open to self-exploration and said &#8220;Yeah, let&#8217;s go for it coach?&#8221; I love his honesty and candidness.</p>
<p>&#8220;So, if <em>your</em> boss was this angry with something you did or didn&#8217;t do, and stormed into a meeting with you having the same intent, how would you react?&#8221; In his typically succinct and earthy way he quickly responded, &#8220;Well I&#8217;d probably hang back, not offer much and look for an opportunity to get the hell out of there!&#8221;. &#8220;Given that, then what would you predict your people will do when you give them the old what for?&#8221; &#8220;Got it!&#8221;, he said with a bit of a snicker.</p>
<p>&#8220;So coach, I&#8217;d like to hear what the heck <em>you</em> think?&#8221; Gerry asked. &#8220;Sure. First of all, it&#8217;s not about them, it&#8217;s about you Gerry! Anger is actually a gift, not a weakness. It only becomes a weakness when this strength is taken too far. Kind of  like manure in the system that gets clogged up. Need I say more? Does that make sense?&#8221; &#8220;Completely.&#8221; Gerry responded.</p>
<p>&#8220;So, having said that, what&#8217;s in just enough anger for you?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Well, for me,&#8221; Gerry shot back, &#8220;It certainly gets me up and running. Actually a source of energy. It sort of acts like a catalyst for making things happen. Come to think of it, if I become <em>more</em> aware of it in the moment I can actually use it to be more effective, otherwise it can get in my way. I think I prefer the former. Any thoughts on what I can do to regulate myself when the old fuse gets a tad short?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s a great question. Why don&#8217;t we take a quick moment and brainstorm some approaches?&#8221; &#8220;Ok&#8221;, Gerry said, &#8220;Maybe I should start not to sweat the small stuff as they say. Hell, if I learn how to better spot it when it shows up, I&#8217;d be better able to dial down the intensity a tad, not shoot first and figure out what I shot after the fact!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I love what you&#8217;ve come up with.&#8221;, I said. &#8220;You might also consider talking yourself down, for example saying to yourself, hey, this is no big deal, can I put this issue on the backburner for the time being? Perhaps I should give this some thought before I shoot. Why don&#8217;t I take  a couple of minutes to just let every muscle in my body, from my toes right up to the top of my head, just relax and decompress. You do whatever works for you.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;So, when you do walk into the meeting after decompressing, how do you need to <em>be</em>?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;As opposed to what I would do?&#8221;, he responded. &#8220;Yes, exactly,&#8221; I retorted. Gerry then continued, &#8220;Probably <em>be </em>calm, more focused on them rather than me. I need to <em>be</em> honest with them in a respectful way, by sharing what my thoughts are in a fairly specific way, how I feel about it all in terms of its importance to me and what it is I think we should consider doing about it.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;That sounds like a superb approach, but what might you do even before that?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;I think I know what you&#8217;re driving at. Rather than adversely pre-influencing them in a way that they think they&#8217;re getting <em>my orders</em>, it might be a hell of a lot better if I asked them collectively and individually what they thought, felt and wanted regarding the issues at hand, and then do the former. Yeah, that&#8217;d work a lot better. Probably generate a lot more information and data that would help us make much more informed decisions. Man, that&#8217;s my game plan!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What are some other potential payoffs of your taking this approach? I asked. &#8220;Obviously, it&#8217;ll be a heck of a lot safer place them, we&#8217;ll build more trust, they&#8217;ll feel heard, buy in will clearly go up, and the solutions we collectively come up with will  probably be a lot more effective as a result.&#8221; said Gerry.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what&#8217;s the take away for you my friend?&#8221; I asked in bringing our meeting to a close. &#8220;Well I guess it&#8217;s that I can use my anger in service of myself, my folks, our customers and our organization, or I can quite frankly let it control me and then blow it!&#8221; &#8220;If it is the latter,&#8221; I asked, &#8220;What might be the adverse consequences for you?&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to even think about it . . . too scary!&#8221; Gerry concluded. &#8220;May the force be in you my friend with the upcoming meeting. I know you&#8217;ll be more than successful!&#8221; I offered.</p>
<p>Does your temper rise at times and get away from you?  Do you find that under stress your anger, anxiety, fear and/or shame show up a tad too quickly?  Do you even notice it?  If you do notice, what do you do with it?  I&#8217;d love to hear your insights and experiences. Take care.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 23:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev Benwick</dc:creator>
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Any transition to a new role, while exciting and an acknowledgement of what the organization thinks of us, is a time of anxiety for the newly transitioning leader.
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<p>Any transition to a new role, while exciting and an acknowledgement of what the organization thinks of us, is a time of anxiety for the newly transitioning leader.</p>
<p>A few of the common errors of a new role leader include trying to do too much too soon, failure to understand the de facto culture/sub culture, and/or misinterpreting the expectations of their superior. Danger lurks ahead….. in the form of mistrust by others, leader fatigue, compounding anxiety with over preparation, and creation of an unsafe environment for employees. As stress intensifies for the new role leader, can you really be making the best decisions for the organization as a whole, your team and yourself?</p>
<p>A recent research article from the University of Washington reported the findings of imposing stress on rats. It took only one uncontrollable stressful episode to greatly effect the behavior of a rat. It actually took the rat several days to recover from the effects of the stressor and return to normal decision making ability. The learning of the stressed rat control group was delayed. As well, this group was unable to readily adjust to alterations made in the imposed stress exercise. Stress altered the ability to learn, the ability to remain agile, and the ability to make decisions. How does this convert to humans? Well, the scientific community has been using rats as study participants for years…there must be something to their selection.</p>
<p>As I look to newly transitioning leaders whom I have coached over the past 5 years, I relate to the news of the above study. Stress has a tremendous effect on performance levels and at a time when a leader is under the microscope and readily judged by others. Clients have shared with me how this has manifested for them and projected in all areas of their life. Many suffer from extreme sleep disturbances and/ or dietary challenges.</p>
<p>I have worked with leaders who admitted that they had hardly slept in two months and leaders who existed on a pop and pizza diet. It is rewarding as a coach to support leaders in these circumstances and be part of the process that allows them to gain back a feeling of balance and control……rewarding them with restful nights rather than a continuum of wide eyed 3 AM note taking sessions. With invested and targeted support, these leaders can bring about greater contribution to the organization in a shortened time frame as they learn to manage their stress, embrace the transition, garner early credibility and move powerfully forward with their leadership.</p>
<p>What is the cost to an organization of not readily investing in the transitioning new role leader? As this is an area of continued research for me I repeatedly see transitioning phases of 14 &#8211; 24 months in executive level roles. More complex portfolios can exceed this timeframe. This is not just about the leader&#8217;s transition. One must take into consideration the transitional impact on those who surround the leader and the cost to the organization when their performance falters as a result of how the new role leader shows up for others.</p>
<p>What is your personal experience in a recent transition, either as the leader or as a direct report to a newly transitioning leader? While you are drinking from a fire hose, what soothing techniques have you found that help to manage anxiety and stress for you? In hindsight, how do you feel your decision making during a recent leadership transition may have been impaired?</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 21:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;Bob, I&#8217;m a little shocked!&#8221; This is how my executive coaching client, Danny, the Vice-President-Production Operations with a large energy firm in the oil patch responded at the beginning of our conversation when asked, &#8220;How are things back at the ranch?&#8221; He went on to explain that when he had been nudged by their Human [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Bob, I&#8217;m a little shocked!&#8221; This is how my executive coaching client, Danny, the Vice-President-Production Operations with a large energy firm in the oil patch responded at the beginning of our conversation when asked, &#8220;How are things back at the ranch?&#8221; He went on to explain that when he had been nudged by their Human Resource function to get a sense of forecasted turnover over the next few years through retirements, attrition, etc., his people had collectively come to the conclusion that 70% of the staff in Danny&#8217;s division would turn over in the next 3 years. &#8220;Well, what are you planning to do to prevent the potential adverse consequences?&#8221;, I asked.</p>
<p>In response, Danny stated, &#8220;We clearly have to start identifying successors to the key Production Operations leadership positions, and in parallel with this identify and accelerate the development of High Potentials.&#8221; &#8220;What are your other glimpses of the obvious?&#8221; I asked him. &#8220;That&#8217;s a darn good question. I guess we&#8217;ve got to review other critical roles and specifically any flight risk staff!&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;What generally would be the outcomes you and your leadership team would likely look for by doing this?&#8221; I asked again. He quickly responded with increased energy, &#8220;Well for one, identify key talent at the senior levels of our division, get a solid sense of our bench strength, get those we identify to be clear on their needed development activities, and agree with our senior team as to what exactly the key succession management metrics should  be!&#8221;. Danny had quickly created excellent strategic direction around this challenge that&#8217;s common to most private and public sector organizations.</p>
<p>When asked, &#8220;What&#8217;s really driving all of this?&#8221;, Danny said &#8220;That&#8217;s another great question. We&#8217;re anticipating continued strong growth once the economy gets back on its feet and obviously anticipating turnover of our key people. The increased challenge of filling these key roles along with our questionable current bench strength and readiness to backfill are clearly wanting, as well as our lack of being able to identify HiPo&#8217;s right now and having them ready to step into senior leadership roles when we need them to surface. I think these are the real concerns here.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;How do you feel about all of this?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Quite frankly, I&#8217;m disappointed, mad as hell for allowing ourselves to get into this position, and I&#8217;m damned anxious about what might happen if we don&#8217;t get on top of it . . . and yesterday! It&#8217;s now one of our top priorities!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;So, what do you want to do about it?&#8221; I asked him. &#8220;Well, it&#8217;s clear that we&#8217;re engineering experts and not Human Resource experts so we&#8217;ll need to get together with HR and soon. I&#8217;ll put this at the top of the list at our next Production Ops executive leadership team meeting this coming Tuesday.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;If you thought you knew what needed to be done in terms of the overall process for moving this forward quickly, what might that be?&#8221; Being the quick thinker he naturally is, Danny stated, &#8220;OK, do you just make these questions up? Well first, I would think that we need to scope out what actually needs to be identified through our succession management initiative. Second, we would no doubt have to assess and review our current engineering talent for levels of performance and potential. Third, we&#8217;d obviously have to start figuring out what key leadership and individual-contributor engineering roles need to be replaced and when. Last, I&#8217;m thinking it&#8217;s about making sure we have a top notch development action planning process in place that can be quickly designed and implemented. Does that make sense?&#8221;. &#8220;More importantly, does it make sense to you?&#8221; I responded. &#8220;You know, it does. Thanks.&#8221;, said Danny.</p>
<p>&#8220;So what&#8217;ll your next steps be given what you&#8217;ve said so far?&#8221; I asked him. &#8220;Again, the questions <a href="http://www.rwbenwick.com/about.html">Uncle Bob</a>!&#8221;, Danny said jokingly. &#8220;Well let me see. I&#8217;m thinking we start right away by initiating a succession planning meeting between us and HR early next month to agree on role expectations, determine critical roles in the Production Operations division, identify high impact engineer flight risks and begin a talent review to develop a list of HiPo&#8217;s.&#8221; &#8220;Then what?&#8221;, I asked. &#8220;OK&#8221;, Danny said, &#8220;Later in the month, we&#8217;ll make sure we have a talent replacement plan in place. In the following month we can shoot for having a development plan nailed down, and the month after that have our succession metrics in place with a solid progress plan established. Yeah, that&#8217;s sounds like it would do it.&#8221; </p>
<p>Lastly I asked Danny, &#8220;So how will we know you&#8217;ve done what you&#8217;ve said?&#8221; &#8220;Again, with the questions!&#8221; he responded tongue in cheek. &#8220;I&#8217;ll send you a one page copy of our general plan for making this happen with target dates. I&#8217;ll send you an email once I believe each of the key milestones have been achieved. We can also carve out a small portion of some of our future executive coaching calls for us to discuss what&#8217;s happening. Will that work?&#8221; &#8220;It&#8217;s sounds like a plan my friend.&#8221; said I.</p>
<p>What insights in the foregoing were there for you? What one word captures your reaction? How do you feel about the subject of talent management and succession planning. What do you want to do with it? I would love to receive any gems this may have conjured up for you. For those interested, a wonderful book on this subject is <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Leadership-Pipeline-Build-Leadership-Powered-Company/dp/0787951722/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1248643444&amp;sr=8-1">&#8216;The Leadership Pipeline: How to Build the Leadership Powered Company&#8217;, by Ram Charan, Stephen Drotter and James Noel</a>. Take care and have a great day!</p>
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		<title>NO CAREER DIRECTION?: ANY ROAD GETS YOU THERE!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 18:32:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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Over the years many of my clients who find themselves in the position of having to look for a new job usually begin by dusting off their outdated resumes (if they have one) and shot gun the local market with it. This action comes out of a compulsion to quickly find another job as soon [...]]]></description>
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<p>Over the years many of my clients who find themselves in the position of having to look for a new job usually begin by dusting off their outdated resumes (if they have one) and shot gun the local market with it. This action comes out of a compulsion to quickly find another job as soon as possible. On the surface, their situation and associated anxiety around being jobless is quite understandable. However, as <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/1992/01/23/obituaries/george-s-odiorne-is-dead-at-71-developed-theory-of-management.html">George Odiorne </a>shared with me over a lunch while attending a workshop in Toronto, Ontario, Canada many years ago, &#8220;Bob, if you don&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re going then any road will get you there, and in all likelihood it will not be where you ever wanted to be!&#8221;</p>
<p>So given George&#8217;s advice, I encourage my executive and professional clients who anticipate being or who are in career transition to consider the following.</p>
<ul>
<li>Get <em><strong>aggressive</strong></em> around narrowing your focus on what it is you really want to be doing next and what it is you don&#8217;t want to repeat.</li>
<li>Ensure you <strong><em>clarify</em></strong> exactly what it is you do want so that you&#8217;ll quickly recognize it when it does show up (and it will).</li>
<li>Then get <strong><em>clear </em></strong>who is in your social network that will help you mine for your targeted career opportunities.</li>
<li>With this clear picture of what <em><strong>better</strong></em> truly looks like you now have a compelling reason directing and motivating you through the ups and downs of your job search campaign.</li>
<li>This also gives you a solid opportunity to <em><strong>assure</strong></em> that you&#8217;re constantly moving in the right direction and on time with your job search campaign plans.</li>
<li>Lastly, it gives you the <em><strong>structure</strong></em> you will need to assess your ongoing professional progress no matter where you are in your career.</li>
</ul>
<p>Doing the foregoing will solidly position you to define and clearly articulate your Career Purpose Statement which should include a number of the following key components.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong><em>Over &#8211; Arching Career Goal</em></strong> (&#8220;to start . . . .&#8221;, &#8220;to secure . . .&#8221;)</li>
<li><strong><em>The Position</em></strong> (level, challenge, accountabilities, scope, leader, individual contributor . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>The Organization</em></strong> (size, private sector, public sector, not-for-profit, dynamic, industry, reputation, . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Your New Boss</em></strong> (leadership style, detailed vs. strategic, . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Culture</em></strong> (the way the organization does business (how people work with each other and their customers, global vs local, entrepreneurial vs. bureaucratic, high vs. low structure, decentralized vs. centralized, individual vs. team focus, . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Geography </em></strong>(local, regional, national, global, where? . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Compensation</em></strong> (salary, benefits, incentives, non-financial support. . . )</li>
<li><em><strong>Your Strengths</strong></em> you bring to the table (your special selling points experience, expertise, languages, style, emotional intelligence, . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Potential Barriers</em></strong> (geographic preferences, competing applicants, family preferences, . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Backup Alternatives</em></strong> (other types of organizations, markets, industries, functions, roles . . . )</li>
<li><strong><em>Next Steps</em></strong> (what do I need to do now, what resources do I need now, making it happen . . . )</li>
</ol>
<p>While the foregoing will be different for each and every one of you in your career transition experience, it will form the core of your job search campaign. Now you can proceed with developing your marketing collateral such as resumes and  powerful job search campaign correspondence, exploring and researching the marketplace, engaging in strategically connecting with those familiar with your target market, proactively interviewing, and then engaging in successful integrative negotiations for that ideal position you&#8217;ve worked so hard at finding and securing . . . and you will!</p>
<p>What in the foregoing for you was the gold nugget . . . the take away? What will you do next? By when? How will you know you&#8217;ve been successful? What do you need to say &#8216;yes to&#8217; and &#8216;no to&#8217; to assure success? I would love to hear your insights and reactions. Have a great day!</p>
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		<title>BAD &#8211; GOOD &#8211; GREAT: PERFORMANCE OPPORTUNITIES!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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So what is the difference between bad, good and great when it comes to leadership and performance opportunities? This came to mind when Joe Bentley, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Management and Organzational Behavior, University of Utah, was talking on the inaugural conference call of Pepperdine University&#8217;s MSOD alumni group&#8217;s &#8216;fireside discussion&#8217; on subject of &#8216;Taming [...]]]></description>
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<p>So what is the difference between bad, good and great when it comes to leadership and performance opportunities? This came to mind when <a href="http://www.business.utah.edu/display.php?fromOrg=953&amp;module=facultyDetails&amp;orgId=953&amp;personId=1216">Joe Bentley, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Management and Organzational Behavior, University of Utah</a>, was talking on the inaugural conference call of <a href="http://bschool.pepperdine.edu/programs/msod/">Pepperdine University&#8217;s MSOD </a>alumni group&#8217;s &#8216;fireside discussion&#8217; on subject of <a href="http://www.globalsensemaking.net/profile/JosephBentley">&#8216;Taming Wicked Problems&#8217;</a>. The alumni showed up from various parts of the world to listen and engage in a rich discussion with this pioneer and leader in the field of organization development.</p>
<p>Following the call, I was able to connect with Joe and ask him for clarification about a particular point that he had brought up concerning performance opportunities that dealt with bad, good and great organizational situations. I was most interested in hearing further about this area as it resonated with much of our executive coaching with corporate clients. The following is what Joe shared with me.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Here are some thoughts on the &#8220;Performance-Opportunity&#8221; problem model. First of all, all professional work is problem-centered, that is professional people engage in activities designed to make things better, to get them back on track, to correct discrepancies, to remove &#8220;noise,&#8221; to increase efficiency, health, income, knowledge, quality, productivity etc. etc. Included here are professional activities in government, the law, medicine, science, education, therapy, economics, public health, etc. etc. If there were no problems, or if they were not important, we would have no concept of Professional Activity. </em></p>
<p><em>The Professions exist in order to change and improve things. Included here of course is OD (organization development). And as I mentioned in the Fireside, all human action is problem centered, when we define a problem as a gap between a present state and a desired future state, (which is the essence of motivation).</em></p>
<p><em>For these reasons I have become tired of some people insisting that problems are bad, too negative, irrelevant, unimportant, etc (I am thinking of course of AI (appreciative inquiry) as a primary advocate of this position). They are all playing a semantics game. There is no interest in change, OD type or otherwise, without something that isn&#8217;t working and needs to be changed, i.e. a problem.</em></p>
<p><em>My work, over the past dozen years has been in teasing out in what ways not all problems are alike, a principle that turns out to be extremely important when change is the goal.</em></p>
<p><em>One of the ways that not all problems are like is that some are &#8220;Performance Problems&#8221;, that is when behavior, results, etc. do not meet standards, and fall short. Most of what we call problems are &#8220;performance&#8221; issues, when change means moving toward the &#8220;good&#8221;, the &#8220;acceptable&#8221;, the &#8220;desired&#8221;, the &#8220;expected&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><em>Another kind of problem in this model is where results are acceptable, but cannot remain the same. There is a &#8220;Better&#8221; or &#8220;Great&#8221; standard out there in the future, and so the Gap here between the acceptable and the &#8220;Best&#8221; is an &#8220;Opportunity Gap&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><em>If you draw on a page three vertical lines perhaps two inches apart, the one at the far left is &#8220;Bad&#8221; or &#8220;Unacceptable,&#8221; the one in the middle is &#8220;Good&#8221; or &#8220;Acceptable&#8221;, and the one on the far right is &#8220;Excellent&#8221; or &#8220;Great&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><em>The Gap between the Bad and the Good is the &#8220;Performance Gap&#8221;, and the Gap between the center (Good) and the far right is the Opportunity Gap. So, looked at this way, none of these is necessarily bad or negative, but represent possible interventions. Closing the gaps between the Bad and the Good, and the Good and the Great is one way to think about change, change in any domain of experience: personal life, relationships, organizations, societies, etc. etc.</em></p>
<p><em>So, for me, all change is a process of Bridging and Closing Gaps, between the present state and the future state. How that is done varies depending upon how people think about change. That is, there are many interventions that could be used to Bridge and Close Gaps. But the Gaps themselves can best be described as Problems. I mentioned the </em><a href="http://www.undp.org/mdg/"><em>UN Millennium Goals program </em></a><em>(in the MSOD conference call) as a classic example of Performance Gaps as problems. &#8220;</em></p>
<p>Thank you Joe! I found Joe&#8217;s perspectives on performance opportunities of great value. What&#8217;s your reaction to the foregoing? How might his ideas be used by you back at the ranch? I&#8217;m always curious about what you readers think and feel. Have a great day!</p>
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<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m responsible for Strategy.&#8221; said <a href="http://shell.com/wind">Mike Payne, General Manager &#8211; Strategy &amp; Portfolio with Shell Gas &amp; Power</a>, while on a Continental flight from Houston, Texas to Seattle, Washington. We just finished introducing ourselves and had an interesting discussion about organizational strategy, employee loyalty and corporate cultures and how they positively or negatively affect organization performance, particularly during these white water times. The whole concept of corporate strategy, its development and implementation have always fascinated me. Having led and facilitated strategic change both in organizations in executive roles and as an executive coach/consultant, I&#8217;ve always believed that strategy development, which of course is critical, is really where &#8220;the rubber hits the sky.&#8221; Strategy implementation on the other hand is where &#8220;the rubber hits the road&#8221;! The latter is where real management change takes place. I&#8217;ll come back to this shortly.</p>
<p>Strategy development is critical, but my experience and observation is that most senior leaders would simply rather chew through their left arm than spend the usual inordinate amounts of time working through a long laborious strategic management process facilitated by high priced consulting firms over many months (even years). The end result is a strategic document so massive that one could hit a moose between the eyes with it and drop him right on the spot. Typically, along with the other &#8216;pressing demands&#8217; that await them back at the ranch, the participants never truly want to revisit these documents no matter how well initially intentioned.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the alternative? Most will agree that organizations have to have a clear vision and supportive strategy! In these turbulent times being faced with imperfect organization systems, people and the world around us, there are truly no right answers. But there is a way to accelerate the development of powerful strategy with the foregoing imperfections. By utilizing full involvement of the whole organization from top to bottom you will be able to maximize understanding, ownership, commitment of the people that have to make it happen (not the executive) and quickly increase the probability of the organization&#8217;s strategic advantage and success.</p>
<p>This means moving forward in a way that fully involves the organization&#8217;s people while driving up the collective dissatisfaction of all involved with the organization&#8217;s current state of affairs and producing substantive clarity around what improvement would look like. Collectively determine the first steps toward moving quickly and powerfully forward on that vision and clarify the capabilities that need to be developed to accelerate the changes needing to take place rapidly thus resulting in the organization overpowering the ever present inertia that resists any planned change.</p>
<p>Now that your organization has a quick and well developed strategy it&#8217;s ready to move forward! Whoa Nellie, not so fast. Remember that inertia piece previously referred to. Well it has been temporarily disabled and if you don&#8217;t exploit it quickly it will solidly re-establish its dysfunctional presence. You must start to quickly redesign your organization to assure you successfully achieve your organization&#8217;s new dream: the strategic plan. The focus now is on redesigning and changing your organization in ways that will enable it to quickly realize the new strategy. This requires you to revisit your organization&#8217;s current structure, systems, staffing, competencies, leadership style and the way we do things around here (often referred to as your organization&#8217;s culture, those principles that guide how people are expected to work with each other and the organization&#8217;s customers/clients).</p>
<p>These key areas must be revisited and fundamentally changed creating full alignment with and producing the strategic results planned for. Otherwise, as Edward Deming put it, every system is perfectly designed for the results it produces! So if you want different results, i.e. achieving the organization&#8217;s new strategy, then by definition you must change each of the foregoing components of your organization or it will simply continue to create the results produced to date and perhaps further deterioration of same. Oh, the dangers of being an executive in this day and age! No wonder these positions are affectionately known as ulcer jobs!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a small insight, the most important aspect of the foregoing is not the strategic planning, strategic management and change in management processes, but rather having the &#8216;leadership cajones&#8217;, courage and confidence to make it all happen! This requires a very unique leader and these are truly a very rare breed, thus being paid the big bucks as they say. However, if the desire is squarely there, then surrounding oneself with the right team who first prepare to invest in themselves working from the inside out, rather than the outside in (i.e. strategic planning, management and change) then you have a fighting chance of success.</p>
<p>This is really all about the CEO and his/her team being different individually and as an executive leadership team as opposed to simply doing things differently. Otherwise, as was previously inferred, the probably of bringing about needed change will be minimal. If anything it will probably become worse. Being different at both the individual and leadership team levels necessitates having the courage to work with highly seasoned executive coaches, being ready to engage in quick and powerful diagnostics, and preparing to first make the personal changes necessary to assure that the new strategy truly sticks to the wall and doesn&#8217;t just slide away. Otherwise the whole strategic management process will be an enormous waste of time, money and organizational energy. And if this is the case, it will clearly contribute to executive candidacies for transfer outside the organization!</p>
<p>What feelings surface for you on this subject? What to you think about it? What is it that you want to do with the information? I&#8217;m most interested in hearing from you: the good, the bad and the ugly!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 02:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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“Those guys just don’t get it!”, “I’m thinking of going elsewhere given the new assignment they’ve forced me to take!”, or “This place is a zoo and no one knows which way is up or down!”. Often when engaged in coaching these and a myriad of other perspectives get voiced loudly and clearly. Although many [...]]]></description>
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<p>“Those guys just don’t get it!”, “I’m thinking of going elsewhere given the new assignment they’ve forced me to take!”, or “This place is a zoo and no one knows which way is up or down!”. Often when engaged in coaching these and a myriad of other perspectives get voiced loudly and clearly. Although many of these clients don’t know it, being ‘stuck’ in a particular perspective or point of view is more common than not. They’re simply stuck because of his/her not being able to see ‘the blinding glimpse of the obvious’. With commitment from the client to ‘want to break through this’ (usually because of the associated pain and discomfort) and powerful coaching they typically make strong breakthroughs quickly and effectively.</p>
<p>So how’s this done? It’s simply a matter of coaching the client to step back and begin looking at the same situation but from different perspectives. Reviewing and clarifying these perspectives, and then making a choice that is ‘integrative’, that is taking in the needs of those significant other stakeholders and his/her own needs, creates a ‘win-win’ resolution and then ‘makes it happen’ as <a href="http://www.spoke.com/info/p1QA1N9/KathleenDannemiller">Kathy Dannemiller </a>and <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/about-us">Jake Jacobs </a>would put it. Easier said than done, but then that is where a highly experienced senior executive coach comes in, particularly for senior executives, individual contributors and hi-potentials constantly wrestling with those organizational concerns where there is never a ‘right answer’.</p>
<p>A universal phenomenon that exists for us all is that we’re always in choice no matter the circumstances that face us. We’re in choice in the morning when we wake up. “What will I wear?”, “What will I have for breakfast?”, “How will I get to work?”, “Do I want to go to work?”, “How do I want to feel right now, today, tomorrow?”, “What attitude do I want to take toward my organization, boss, peers, sub ordinates, team members, customers/clients, family members, etc.?” The list is simply never-ending.</p>
<p>Another universal phenomenon (oh, they’re limitless), is that for every choice there is a consequence . . . good, bad or ugly! That is why knowing this information is key to our true success and fulfillment as children, parents, team members, employees, leaders and community members. Always consider your thoughts, wants and feelings (in equal amounts) before choosing. If the results impact others, always share with them what the foregoing are for you, and then also ask them what they think, want and feel about the same issue and use this collective information to make choices that satisfy.</p>
<p>Heck, even our dogs are in choice. Say that again! OUR DOGS ARE ALSO ALWAYS IN CHOICE! Let me give you a for example. In June of 2008 we adopted two new rescue Brittany Spaniels through the <a href="http://www.americanbrittanyrescue.org/">American Brittany Rescue Association</a>. I drove Skya in from Nebraska, and drove Woody from Montana. Both were to replace two rescue Brittany’s who had passed away from old age a few months prior. Back to being in choice. Skya had been picked up off the street and was about to be euthanized in a Kill Shelter. Fortunately, someone stepped in at the last minute who rescued her turning her over to the American Brittany Rescue Association, and we picked her up a month later. In the interim, in that she came off the street and no one knew her real name, she ended up being called Sidney.</p>
<p>Of course, when I picked her up she did not respond to her assigned name. So on the drive back to Vancouver, BC from Nebraska I called <a href="http://www.rwbenwick.com/about.html">Bev</a>, my wife and fearless CEO of RWBA, and asked that she set up a meeting with Jerry Wong, a well known human and animal psychic. Jerry had worked very closely with <a href="http://blog.rwbenwick.com/2009/03/beau-epitome-of-unwavering-resolve/">Beau</a>, our previous male Brittany who had passed away of cancer. The objective: have Jerry connect with Sidney.</p>
<p>Well to make a long story short, he did it. Initially, after some preliminary work with her he was not able to get a specific name from her. He worked hard at connecting, but to no avail. Then Bev said, “Why don’t you ask her what she wants to be called?” so Jerry went back to work with her. He simply put her in choice! She responded by showing Jerry a huge night sky with a plethora of stars throughout. Bev and I immediately shouted out the obvious: “Star! “ Jerry asked her and she communicated no. You’ve no doubt already guessed that she had chosen and communicated through images to Jerry that her name is Skya! When this was actually said out loud she immediately reacted by jumping up excitedly and running around our family room. I’m getting ‘verpluncked’ just sharing this with you. Yes, even our sweet Skya was and is always in choice. Thank you Jerry for coaching our little gal!</p>
<p>So there you have it, we, all of use, are always in choice! So what was the blinding glimpse of the obvious for you, your team and your organization in the above? I would love to hear your thoughts and gain your perspective. Thank you for taking the time to read this.</p>
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Well, it&#8217;s no secret that The Benwicks are huge animal lovers! To build on the current theme of Bob&#8217;s recent blog on Beau Benwick, I would like to share another perspective on leadership based on the human interaction with canines as we seek to establish the &#8220;leader in the pack&#8221; not unlike establishing our role [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Well, it&#8217;s no secret that The Benwicks are huge animal lovers! To build on the current theme of Bob&#8217;s recent blog on <a href="http://blog.rwbenwick.com/2009/03/beau-epitome-of-unwavering-resolve/">Beau Benwick</a>, I would like to share another perspective on leadership based on the human interaction with canines as we seek to establish the &#8220;leader in the pack&#8221; not unlike establishing our role as leader in any organization or community.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.cesarmillaninc.com/">Cesar Millan</a>, is an incredible animal behaviorist. You may have seen his show on the <a href="http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/series/dog-whisperer/all/Overview">National Geographic Channel…. The Dog Whisperer….</a> I tend to tune in the wee hours of the morning on those nights when sleep escapes me &#8211; too much late night caffeine! I always get &#8220;take aways&#8221; from each show….not just in regard to our canine house mates, but I see such parallels to leadership amongst human kind. Cesar&#8217;s coin of the phrase &#8220;Leader of the Pack&#8221; has great meaning regardless of what species provides the context.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">While several leadership pathways emerge from observing and reading about Cesar&#8217;s choice of methods [read <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Be-Pack-Leader-Cesars-Transform/dp/0307381668">Be the Pack Leader</a>, Millan, C. &amp; Peltier, J.(2007)], I am taken with the emphasis demonstrated on the value of calm assertive energy as a means to bring about desirable outcome…..in canine world this showcases the need for self regulation of the leader&#8217;s energy as dogs are all about reading this. It is what they respond to. If we as leader exhibit anger, excitement, anxiety, and/or fear while working with our canines, what will we bring about for them? Clearly we are modeling unbalanced behavior of which they will emulate or respond to. Watching those on TV who reach out to Cesar to bring solution to their canine problems, he is very clear as to who needs the help….the leader! It is interesting to note that those coming from a leadership position that demonstrates anxiety or excitable behaviour also tend to struggle to achieve the bottom and top line results, results they are looking for as their messaging. Just as with canines, they will often come across to others as perhaps reactive and confusing, or unpredictable, intimidating, lackluster and incredulous, often eroding that most important aspect&#8230;..trust! </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what does this mean for us homo sapiens? In our human experience under conditions of stress (that&#8217;s constantly around us), the question is, &#8216;as leaders how do we show up for others and what messaging are we sending to those that we lead? If our anxiety, anger, and/or fear are not well self-regulated, particularly in these challenging times….. can you, the organizational leader, really expect to get desired contribution and performance from your people once you&#8217;ve made key decisions? Under continuous growing demands from all around you, in such a state can a you, as leader, clearly produce the best balanced decisions for the organization and its constituents? What tools could your organization provide you with to fully support you to better self-regulate, thus maximizing your leadership effectiveness and providing the leverage for you to become a highly respected &#8220;leader of the pack&#8221;? </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And….to Cesar Millan, …… it would be a sincere pleasure to eventually have the opportunity to meet a true developer of leaders!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Are there any Cesars in your organization? Are you one? What do you need to say yes to in order to create the possibility! What do you need to start saying no to in order assure its happening?</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 18:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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Jake Jacobs is a wonderful friend and one of the most talented and leading organization change thinkers out there today. A pioneer in the area of large-scale real-time strategic change, Jake is the go to person if you&#8217;re at all interested in assuring the strategic success of your organization, no matter what size, in these [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Jake Jacobs is a wonderful friend and one of the most talented and leading organization change thinkers out there today. A pioneer in the area of large-scale real-time strategic change, Jake is <em>the</em> go to person if you&#8217;re at all interested in assuring the strategic success of your organization, no matter what size, in these times of unprecedented white-water change.</p>
<p>Jake teamed up with Dick and Emily Exelrod, and Julie Beedon to write a short powerful book, <span style="color: #008000;"><strong>&#8216;You Don&#8217;t Have to Do It Alone: How to Involve Others To Get Things Done&#8217;</strong></span>. This book is a must for any executive serious about the success of their organization&#8217;s future bottom and top lines. The <a href="http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9C07EEDE123BF933A25753C1A9629C8B63&amp;sec=&amp;spon=&amp;pagewanted=all">New York Times</a> claims that it is &#8220;The best of the current crop of books on this topic…a complete blueprint for involving others.&#8221;</p>
<p>Berret Koehler, the publisher, summarizes it beautifully by declaring:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;You Don’t Have to Do It Alone: How to Involve Others to Get Things Done&#8221; provides a simple, straightforward approach, known as &#8220;Pragmatic Involvement,&#8221; in order to bring people together to get big things done. Most people in organizations tend to manage projects either as &#8220;Realists&#8221; or &#8220;Humanists.&#8221; Realists focus on getting things done. They pride themselves on their no-nonsense attitude. However, they often ignore the human factors that profoundly affect the success of a project. On the other hand, humanists are concerned about people. They care about others and their feelings. Unfortunately, they often overlook practical considerations, such as deadlines and budgets. </em></p>
<p><em>You Don’t Have to Do It Alone brings together the practical view of the realist and the people oriented view of the humanist, combining the best of both approaches into one role—the “Pragmatic Involver.” As the authors note, &#8220;The question is not &#8216;whether to involve or not to involve.&#8217; The question is how to do it well.&#8221; This book will show you how to avoid wasting valuable time and talents in order to truly work with others to get things done. </em></p>
<p><em>You Don’t Have to Do It Alone is organized around a series of five questions that are asked by Pragmatic Involvers whenever they tackle a new challenge: </em></p>
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<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">What Kind of Involvement Is Needed? </span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">How Do I Know Who to Include? </span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">How Do I Invite People to Become Involved? </span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">How Do I Keep People Involved? </span></strong></em></li>
<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">How Do I Finish the Job? </span></strong></em></li>
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<p><em>This book is the Swiss Army Knife of involvement—a set of tools that can be used in any setting to get you the help you need. You will learn to involve others in a way that will actually make your work easier, that will result in less stress, better ideas, and more successful outcomes. The lessons that you learn will apply whether you are working at a multinational corporation, an inner-city hospital, or at the community bake sale.</em></p>
<p>Check out Jake, Dick and Emily discussing their book and its potential on <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SodKa1tkSMw&amp;eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Ewindsofchangegroup%2Ecom%2Fvideos%2Fdont%2Dhave%2Dto%2Ddo%2Dit%2Dalone&amp;feature=player_embedded">Youtube</a>. Jake Jacobs is President of Robert W. Jacobs Consulting, Inc., and the author of Real Time Strategic Change and was a contributor to The Change Handbook and The Conscious Consultant. His clients include Marriott, The Home Depot, and the City of New York. Go to Jake&#8217;s Winds of Change Group <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com">website </a>if you are interested in exploring the creation of more potential for your organization&#8217;s future strategic success. </p>
<p>If you have read this book, I would enjoy hearing what you thought and felt about it. Just go to the comments below and, as Larry the Cable Guy would say, &#8216;Gitt&#8217;er Done!&#8217;.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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The name of the fellow you see above is Beau, Beau Benwick. He had what Jim Collins referred to as unwavering resolve. We treated him like a son. Beau came into our life when we had lost a previous rescue Brittany Spaniel, CeCe. Within a few months of CeCe passing away, Bev (my wife and [...]]]></description>
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<p>The name of the fellow you see above is Beau, Beau Benwick. He had what <a href="http://www.jimcollins.com/bio/index.html">Jim Collins </a>referred to as unwavering resolve. We treated him like a son. Beau came into our life when we had lost a previous rescue Brittany Spaniel, CeCe. Within a few months of CeCe passing away, Bev (my wife and CEO of our global executive coaching firm) had gone onto the <a href="http://www.americanbrittanyrescue.org/">American Brittany Rescue Association website</a> and shortly thereafter said, &#8220;I&#8217;m flying down to Chicago on business and while there I&#8217;ll be putting our new rescue dog daughter, Honey, on the first plane to Seattle and please arrange to drive down and pick her up.&#8221; I dutifully, yet quite excitedly, said, &#8220;Absolutely!&#8221; Within two weeks of that, Bev said &#8220;Would you also arrange to drive down to Sacramento and pick up our new rescue dog son, Beau?&#8221; This was about 8 years ago and they would be our first pair of Rescue Brittanys being brought to their &#8216;forever home&#8217;. </p>
<p>The foregoing is just setting the stage for the wonderful story to come. Both Beau and Honey settled in very quickly and were showered with love and every amenity any human being could wish for. Although Honey came from a good home and background, Beau came to us as an abused, rough and tumble character that never went around anything, but through it. He was a stoic fellow who never whined, but simply took what life handed out. He had a powerful and quiet strength about him. Both he and Honey became very, very close to Bev, who has an extensive equine background. She has this magic around animals that when they see her, they will come considerable distances just to be near her. It&#8217;s actually quite amazing to observe.</p>
<p>Now back to Beau. About two and a half years ago Bev began her Master in Leadership degree at <a href="http://www.royalroads.ca/programs/faculties-schools-centres/faculty-social-applied-sciences/leadership-studies/ldrship-ma/">Royal Roads University, Victoria, BC</a>. She took this task on with huge gusto and worked on squeezing every ounce of learning she could out of the experience. What I&#8217;m trying to say is that she studied 24-7 for two plus years. Once she started on her thesis project, she literally lived in her second story office in our home. Always with her was Beau, lying at her feet on a sheepskin rug under her desk and computer. </p>
<p>It was soon after Bev started working on her degree that we noticed Beau was experiencing physical difficulties. He was immediately taken to the vet, who after taking a number of x-rays, shared that Beau had cancer and would probably not live for another month. A complete shock to us and heart rending! As is her way, Bev then pulled out all the stops and had Beau provided with every traditional and non-traditional healing alternative available. This included bringing in an &#8216;animal psychic&#8217; by the name of Jerry, who has since become a dear friend. After being introduced to Beau, Jerry started to work with him with great intensity. It was in one of the early sessions that Jerry told Bev and I that Beau shared with him that he was not prepared to <em>move on</em> until Bev had completed her &#8216;work&#8217;, meaning her studies. It was about being there for her, supporting and protecting her because he had strongly picked up on her increased stress levels. This went completely in the face of his prognosis.</p>
<p>Through the good and bad they were both there for each other. They were absolutely inseparable. It wasn&#8217;t unusual for me to get up in the wee hours of the morning on any night of the week and see Bev working hard in her office with Beau at her feet. He never left her. Bev rarely left her office other than to deliver on her executive coaching commitments, eat and get &#8217;some&#8217; sleep.</p>
<p>Two years after Beau&#8217;s prognosis, Bev completed her exceptionally lengthy thesis and pushed the button on her computer with an enormous sigh of relief and a declaration that &#8220;It&#8217;s finally done!&#8221; It was the very next day Beau passed away, March 24th, 2008. It would be an understatement to say his passing was enormous. The lessons learned from this wonderful &#8216;being&#8217; called Beau Benwick were monumental. In his way, Beau was a wonderful teacher and leader to the both of us.</p>
<p>So, in line with our blog site theme, I believe that Jim Collins, in his influential book <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Good-Great-Companies-Leap-Others/dp/0066620996/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1237923700&amp;sr=8-1"><em>Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap . . . and Others Don&#8217;t</em>,</a> really captured the qualities of this amazing being who came into our lives and changed us forever . . . and for so much the better. The five attributes that Jim Collins claims typify a Level 5 Leader, were completely aligned with who Beau Benwick was:</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008000;">1. Self-Confident Enough To Set Up Their Successors For Success</span></strong> &#8211; Beau did this in spades for Bev. </p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>2. Humble and Modest</strong> </span>- never did Beau complain during the cancer that eventually wracked his body, but always showed enormous strength in a quiet, loving and caring manner as he supported Bev.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008000;">3. Have &#8220;Unwavering Resolve&#8221;</span></strong> &#8211; Beau made it clear the two years previously that he would never abandon Bev, would unwaveringly support and protect her until she had &#8216;completed climbing her mountain&#8217;. </p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>4. Display a &#8220;Workmanlike Diligence&#8221;</strong> </span>- more plow horse than show horse, this was Beau through and through; nothing deterred him from being at Bev&#8217;s side in his quiet, powerful manner.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008000;">5. Give Credit to Others for Their Success and Take Full Responsibility For Poor Results </span></strong>- Beau was solely there for Bev, expected nothing but kindness and love in return no matter what the result of Bev&#8217;s academic efforts were. She was his hero regardless of the outcome. (By the way she received rave reviews from her Academic Advisor on her final thesis report).</p>
<p>Well that was our Beau. He left an enormous hole in our lives. When he passed away, Honey, who was at the peak of health at the time, quickly deteriorated from his passing and absence and she too passed away three months later. Bev and I simply could not stand the vacuum created in our lives by their loss. Bev got back in touch with the <a href="http://www.americanbrittanyrescue.org/">American Brittany Rescue Association </a>and last June and July, 2008, I was instructed to drive to Montana and to pick up &#8216;Woody&#8217; a five year old male Brittany love machine, and <a href="http://blog.rwbenwick.com/2009/06/what-strategy-any-road-will-get-us-there/">&#8216;Skya&#8217;</a>, a seven your old female Brittany sweetheart who had been rescued from a &#8216;Kill Shelter&#8217; a month prior (see <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5DB8DkoTn4">YouTube</a>). She&#8217;s another story because she actually named herself with Jerry&#8217;s help. If interested, I would be happy to share this story with you as well.</p>
<p>I hope you&#8217;ve enjoyed this little tale. It&#8217;s been cathartic for me and I thank you for your indulgence. I admired Beau and learned a lot from his quiet strength and unwavering resolve. I would enjoy hearing about similar experiences. Just go to &#8216;comments&#8217; below and have at it. Have a great day!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;Given the current market and the organization&#8217;s poor revenues over the past year, I wasn&#8217;t surprised when they gave me notice of termination.&#8221; Tony, a senior marketing executive with a large petrochemical firm had just been let go after 15 years with the organization. &#8220;So how are you feeling in this moment?&#8221;, I asked. &#8220;Well, [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Given the current market and the organization&#8217;s poor revenues over the past year, I wasn&#8217;t surprised when they gave me notice of termination.&#8221; Tony, a senior marketing executive with a large petrochemical firm had just been let go after 15 years with the organization. &#8220;So how are you feeling in this moment?&#8221;, I asked. &#8220;Well, even though I had guessed my number was coming up, it still came as a complete shock. Not only to me, but to my family as well! It&#8217;s been a long time since I&#8217;ve looked for a job and I&#8217;m not sure where to start.&#8221; &#8220;Well based on what I know about you so far, I&#8217;m confident you will do well in promoting yourself, and strongly believe that you&#8217;ll succeed in your campaign to find a new job!&#8221; I continued, &#8220;Let&#8217;s really drill down and build a solid foundation for you to move forward confidently and powerfully.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What is it you believe you need to do to succeed?&#8221; I asked him. Tony is a very outgoing individual with a naturally positive outlook that he would have to lean on as he moved forward with his career transition. &#8220;Well, there is no doubt that the way I will look at this whole situation will form the foundation of my job search campaign and probably be the reason why I&#8217;ll succeed at it. Plus, I&#8217;d like to make solid progress toward landing on my feet in another position as soon as practical and bank as much of my severance as possible!&#8221; he said with conviction.</p>
<p>&#8220;How do you plan to navigate through the forthcoming job search challenges and implement a powerful campaign for yourself?&#8221; I inquired. &#8220;I probably need to start at the beginning!&#8221; he said facetiously. &#8220;Say that again?&#8221;, I responded. &#8220;Seriously, I sense that I need to begin taking some kind of inventory of my strengths and get clear on the work I truly love to do, getting some clarity around what it is I want to really achieve, and preparing to package and market myself.&#8221; Tony stated.</p>
<p>&#8220;It appears that you already have good clarity and a great jump start on how you plan to market yourself and build a strong network of contacts&#8221;, I commented, and went on, &#8220;What else do you need to focus on?&#8221;. &#8220;For sure, I&#8217;ll need to also take a hard look at my interview and negotiating skills. I just know, there&#8217;ll be no room for laying back and taking it easy, not until I&#8217;ve nailed down a good opportunity&#8221;.&#8221; So, how do you need to be as you move forward?&#8221;, I asked. Tony, quickly responded with a resounding, &#8220;I need to be thoughtful, thorough and persistent in everything I do from here on in. I also need to be physically, psychologically and spiritually at my best!&#8221;</p>
<p>With this, Tony and I coached and collaborated around key steps in his career transition plan that would be needed to assure his success. The following capture what we coached around and Tony made happen. </p>
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<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Completed A Full Inventory of Himself:</strong> </span>Identified his past successes, current strengths, over-all work and leadership styles, and personal preferences and became expert in the product &#8211; himself.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Clarified His Career Direction:</span> </strong>got great clarity, became focused and realistic all based firmly on his key strengths.</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Professionally Packaged &amp; Presented Himself:</strong></span> developed powerful résumés (professional brochures) that showcased him professionally.</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Developed a Laser-Focused Marketing Campaign:</strong></span> created a clear strategy for going after those industries, organizations, roles and key decision makers in a way that took full advantage of his limited time, available resources and assured a successful outcome of his market campaign. </li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Created A Powerful Strategic Network:</strong></span> engaged in a highly planful and results producing Business relationships building campaign that was vital to his job search success. </li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Designed Highly Influential Campaign Correspondence:</strong></span> designed and developed a range of professional search campaign letters from introducing himself to following up on key opportunities. </li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Partnering with His Coach, Practiced His Interviewing and Negotiating Skills:</strong> </span>deepened his emotional intelligence that included his self-regulation, communication (particularly asking and listening) skills, and his empathy accuracy and compassion abilities that proved essential to converting opportunities into ready job offers. </li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Assured His Success In The New Job:</strong></span> We worked together to assure successful leadership transition into the new role by taking steps that would accelerate his transition from being an initial net consumer of the new organization&#8217;s resources to a net contributor in as short a time as practical.</li>
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<p>Tony was amazingly thorough and persistent in managing his job search campaign. He worked as hard for Tony Inc., 5 days a week, 8 hours a day, as he had for his previous employer. This dramatically contributed to his achieving, and even exceeding, what he truly wanted. In his case it took him five and a half months. He was eventually offered and accepted a position more senior and at a higher total compensation level than where he had been previously working. Nothing to sneeze at! I loved partnering with him as his career transition coach during that part of his life&#8217;s journey.</p>
<p>What were the blinding glimpses of the obvious for you in Tony&#8217;s experience? What would you add to the foregoing? What part causes you personal trepidation? What would you do differently if you were to do this?</p>
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		<title>NICE TIE, YOU&#8217;RE FIRED!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 03:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;Listen, I feel confident about most things, but terminating some of my staffs&#8217; employment isn&#8217;t really one of them. I don&#8217;t want to be one of those managers that simply say, &#8216;nice tie, you&#8217;re fired&#8217;!&#8221; said Frank, a senior operations vice-president I&#8217;ve been coaching. &#8220;Given the white-water economy we&#8217;re faced with, some serious people decisions [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Listen, I feel confident about most things, but terminating some of my staffs&#8217; employment isn&#8217;t really one of them. I don&#8217;t want to be one of those managers that simply say, &#8216;nice tie, you&#8217;re fired&#8217;!&#8221; said Frank, a senior operations vice-president I&#8217;ve been coaching. &#8220;Given the white-water economy we&#8217;re faced with, some serious people decisions have to be made around here, that will probably include cutting some people loose. Again, I really don&#8217;t want to do this. However, I&#8217;d like to make sure I don&#8217;t make any major errors when the rubber hits the ground.&#8221; Frank and I agreed that letting people go is more common than not these days and this action needs to be managed competently and with compassion for both the organization and those folks who will be departing.</p>
<p>&#8220;So, what would be some key payoffs of your handling these employment terminations well?&#8221; I asked Frank. Being a relatively quiet individual by nature, he took some time to think about it before he responded. The following benefits surfaced during our coaching discussion: </p>
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<li><em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">reduced</span></strong></em> trauma and the adverse impact of the event to the individuals affected</li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">avoid</span></em></strong> some serious downsides when thoughtfully providing the difficult news and hopefully maintain healthy relationships following the event</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>minimized</strong></em></span> potential problems for the organization itself in terms of a well handled meeting, sending a positive message to those remaining, and avoiding unintended comments</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>Being in service </strong></em></span>of the departing employees getting a positive jump start toward landing on their feet as quickly as practical with their job search campaigns</li>
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<p>Based on the foregoing, Frank and I further coached around what some of the logical key steps might be when engaging in the process. These included:</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">DECOMPRESSION</span></em></strong>: choose an appropriate time and a neutral setting for the termination meeting (not in his office)</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong><em>SET THE CONTEXT:</em></strong></span> authentically and briefly express genuine concern for the organization&#8217;s current situation and future prospects </p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">GET TO THE POINT:</span></em></strong> state the departure very quickly, clearly and succinctly.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>TERMINATION PACKAGE AND SUPPORT:</strong></em> </span>explain the termination package, including benefits coverage and any career transition coaching support being made available, and offering to support the individual wherever practical.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">DOCUMENTATION:</span></em></strong> ensuring a letter outlining the specifics of the termination package, including a release document, be given to the individual so that they can study the letter and package later when the dust starts to settle. &#8220; LASER LISTEN: Allow time for the individual to react and raise questions of clarification, yet being clear the decision has been made and is final</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">COMPASSION AND SUPPORT:</span></em></strong> offer moral support, but not in terms of reversing the decision that has been made.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">TERMINATION TRANSITION:</span></em></strong> following thorough pre-planning, discuss the specific details concerning the individual&#8217;s transition out of the organization.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong><em>CAREER TRANSITION COACH:</em></strong> </span>introduce the separating individual to the assigned R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES career transition coach or internal Human Resource Management specialist. Meeting Length: total meeting time to be kept to 10 to 15 minutes max! A longer meeting could very well deteriorate, and end up creating unnecessary concerns.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #008000;">AFTER THE MEETING:</span></em></strong> once the departed individual has worked with their R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES coach and prepared for their employment search they may want to meet with Frank for some information, advice or suggestions relative to their job search campaign, or they may want to approach him to provide a reference. Here, the R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES coach can help to smoothly facilitate the terminated employee to move forward quickly and reduce any related discomfort experienced by Frank.</p>
<p>Frank felt quite confidant at the end of our coaching meeting on the topic and now knew where he needed to spend more time deepening his understanding, planning, organizing and preparing to handle this difficult task thoughtfully and compassionately. </p>
<p>What else do you think Frank needs to consider? Other potential problems? What else might he do to prevent these or to minimize any adverse consequences should they arise? Your thoughts and feelings around the foregoing would be most appreciated.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 20:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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 &#8221;For some reason when I tell them what I want accomplished, I simply don&#8217;t appear to be getting the results!&#8221; stated Barbara, my executive coaching client. &#8220;So how do you feel about that?&#8221;, I asked. &#8220;Frustrated as hell, impotent, and powerless to make things happen!&#8221;, she replied. She went on, &#8220;I thought I understood this leadership and power [...]]]></description>
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<p> &#8221;For some reason when I tell them what I want accomplished, I simply don&#8217;t appear to be getting the results!&#8221; stated Barbara, my executive coaching client. &#8220;So how do you feel about that?&#8221;, I asked. &#8220;Frustrated as hell, impotent, and powerless to make things happen!&#8221;, she replied. She went on, &#8220;I thought I understood this leadership and power stuff, but I think I&#8217;ve missed the boat somehow.&#8221; We engaged in some solid discussion and coaching around what <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">power</span></strong></em> is and is not for her. From this Barbara mined some great insights and confidently identified what she needed to start, stop and continue doing as a leader to improve her ability to enhance her relationships and dramatically increase her group&#8217;s strategic contribution to both her Division&#8217;s and the organization&#8217;s success.</p>
<p>As we coached, she quickly became more aware that she can&#8217;t just <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">power</span></strong> </em>someone, she can only <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">influence</span></strong></em> them. However, she also realized that she needs <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">power</span></strong></em> in order to effectively <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">influence</span></strong></em> others to do want she needed done. She noted in our coaching discussion that power for her was in fact an essential leadership resource. She also quickly ascertained from our exchange that there are basically two sources of power that are available for her to tap into: <span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>organizational position power</strong></em> </span>that came with her role, and her own <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">personal power</span></strong></em>.</p>
<p>As we explored sources of <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">position power</span></strong></em>, Barbara concluded that this came from her access to the formal power essentially her <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">right to command</span></strong></em>. She also noted that with her role came the ability to <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">use rewards</span></strong></em>, be they financial or non-financial rewards. She quickly added to the foregoing her ability to use <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">coercion</span></strong></em> to get want she wanted from others, be they threats, denial of rewards or even the use of <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">punishment</span></strong></em>. Although she tried not to use these, she felt some folks may have seen it more often than not. After further discussion, she concluded that other sources of her <span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>position power</strong></em> </span>might also include her <strong><span style="color: #008000;"><em>control of her function&#8217;s business processes</em>, <em>access and control of key information</em>, and the <em>power to represent her strategic business unit</em></span></strong>. Although, all <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">legitimate</span></strong></em>, she was very clear that these should be used with considerable forethought, sparingly and by exception. Unfortunately, in hindsight she confided that she was concerned about her inappropriate use of some of the foregoing and wanted to modify related behaviors.</p>
<p>We continued with our discussion around those <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">sources of power</span></strong></em>. She emphasized a desire to increase her ability to get results through others, whether they reported directly to her or not, and assure that they would also be highly satisfied with their working relationship with her. She felt if she could achieve this the result would probably be higher motivation on their part, resulting in generally increased effort to make things happen and thus support successful achievement of her and their overall performance  targets.</p>
<p>This then lead to more coaching around Barbara&#8217;s sources of <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">personal power</span></strong></em>. These tended to include her <span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>expert power</strong></em> </span>such as her <span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>specialized knowledge, experience and judgment</strong></em> </span>that the others needed access to because they didn&#8217;t have it themselves. Another source was her ability to <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">rationally persuade</span></strong></em> others that the goals she wanted achieved were desirable and the way to achieve them reasonable. And last, but not least, was what we both agreed was absolutely one of her greatest sources of potential power and that was her <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">ability to influence others because they genuinely like her and want to identify with her</span></strong></em>. Barbara knew that would be possible only if she takes the time to invest in relationships with key others and allows herself to withdraw when needed to get critical results accomplished.</p>
<p>It became obvious that for her to achieve important results through not only her people, but also through her peers, boss and key others, <span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>personal power</strong></em> </span>was <em>the</em> most critical area for her to continue to develop and enhance. She felt the focus would now be on developing her <em><strong><span style="color: #008000;">likeability&#8212;referent power</span></strong></em>. This is one smart lady and I know she will become even more powerful and influential in advancing her organization&#8217;s strategic advantage.</p>
<p>Based on the foregoing, what would you have added that could enable her to be a more powerful leader? What was the gold nugget for you in Barbara&#8217;s situation? Oh, the places she&#8217;ll go when she gets on top of this one!</p>
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		<title>WHAT RÉSUMÉ? : YOU NEED A PROFESSIONAL BROCHURE!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;Treat your résumé as your professional brochure!&#8221; was a response I recently gave a client during one of our telephone coaching calls. He wanted coaching around marketing himself in this phenomenally difficult economy. His objective was to powerfully promote himself as a senior leader. This more often than not comes forward as a request from [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Treat your résumé as your professional brochure!&#8221; was a response I recently gave a client during one of our telephone coaching calls. He wanted coaching around marketing himself in this phenomenally difficult economy. His objective was to powerfully promote himself as a senior leader. This more often than not comes forward as a request from many of my clients who are either doing well within their current role and wish to move higher in their organization, anticipating eventually leaving on their own volition, anxious about their organization engaging in future downsizing or have recently departed their organization.</p>
<p>Similar to when one is contemplating a product purchase, most decision makers want to quickly access a concise summary of the key benefits, qualilities and potential added value of the product or service being considered. The key decision making information is typically available in hardcopy or electronic brochure formats. &#8220;This is no different for you&#8221; I shared with my client. &#8220;You&#8217;re the product! Just like other high end products or services that are presented to potential buyers in a powerful and impactful way, so it is that you need to market and present yourself. Would it be beneficial for you to create just such a powerful brochure to market and present yourself? Do you want to substantively increase your chances of having your &#8216;professional brochure&#8217; put on to the &#8216;yes pile&#8217; as opposed to the &#8216;maybe&#8217; or &#8216;no&#8217; applicant piles?&#8221; The answer was a quick and unreserved yes.</p>
<p>As my client and I coached in real-time over the phone, I asked him a series of specific questions to advance his foregoing agenda. From these we quickly developed a draft version of his chronological résumé. My contribution focused on being a &#8216;process expert and coach&#8217; in service of his developing this critically important professional marketing document. My client&#8217;s focus was clearly being the &#8216;content expert&#8217;. Within about two hours he had a substantive document that he could quickly move forward with. What remained was his applying final content touches and being prepared to come back with his finished document so that we could then quickly create a &#8216;Functional&#8217; version at our following coaching session should he consider exploring opportunities in other industries.</p>
<p>Recalling our conversation, the following are few of the key points shared with him as we went through the process. Some folks spend weeks or months attempting to do just this.</p>
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<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Keep the Document Short: </span></strong>Keep the résumé short and to the point. No more than 3 pages for senior professionals and executives.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Maximize White Space: </span></strong>Don&#8217;t fool with the margins! Make it an absolute breeze for the reader to go through and see the key points . . . bingo, bango, bongo and over to the &#8216;yes&#8217; pile.</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Create An Overarching Statement: </strong></span>After inserting the name and contact information, tell them exactly who you are professionally, what key areas of expertise you bring with you, where these came from and how you will add value to the organization once on board. This is <em>the</em> most critical part of your résumé!</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Apply Bob&#8217;s Rule of Two: </span></strong>Other than your overarching statement at the top, never ever go beyond two lines in any other part of your résumé . . . keep it simple, powerful and very very easy read!</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Keep It Results Oriented: </strong></span>Your résumé should scream results and high contribution to potential employers! Otherwise, why hire you? Use the CAR approach to describe each of your key achievements (Challenge/Action/Results).</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Finish With A Bang!: </span></strong>Now that you&#8217;ve told them that you not only <em>can</em> and <em>will</em> do the job, don&#8217;t hesitate to now share with them that you also <em>fit</em> in nicely with the <em>way they do business </em>by describing your personal qualities and core personal competencies. This is the icing on the cake that nudges the decision maker in the right direction.</li>
<li><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Judiciously Use Color: </strong></span>Thoughtfully apply the use of color, particularly in key headings, that can be highly effective in making your résumé stick out from others and increase its chances of ending up in the &#8216;yes&#8217; applicant pile.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Create A Range of Alternative Résumés: </span></strong>Be prepared to develop a range of alternative résumés for you to pick and choose from depending on each presenting opportunity. Never use the same one for every opportunity that arises!</li>
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<p>These are some of the key considerations when developing your professional brochure.  Hopefully, you will find the foregoing both intriguing and in service of your future success and fulfillment.</p>
<p>Let me leave a question with you. &#8220;What do you now have to say no to in the development of your personal brochure in order for a potential employer to say &#8216;yes&#8217;?&#8221;</p>
<p>Other related concerns you may have to contend with might involve your supporting marketing correspondence, focused market research, powerful strategic networking, highly competent interviewing, nimbly handling negotiations, and assuring successful value-added leadership transition into the next role. But foregive me for I digress . . . those are possible future blogs. Are they of potential interest?</p>
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Bill Fitzgerald, Principal with FitzDrake Search, is like a brother to me. Our friendship started when we partnered through Pepperdine University&#8217;s Master of Science in Organization Development degree back in the late eighties and has continued to grow from there. One of the brightest and most pragmatic people I know, Bill has a long list of writings [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://blog.rwbenwick.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/copy-of-istock_000007720323medium1.jpg"></a><a href="http://www.fitzdrakesearch.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=view&amp;id=5&amp;Itemid=4">Bill Fitzgerald</a>, Principal with <a href="http://www.fitzdrakesearch.com/">FitzDrake Search</a>, is like a brother to me. Our friendship started when we partnered through <a href="http://bschool.pepperdine.edu/programs/msod/">Pepperdine University&#8217;s Master of Science in Organization Development </a>degree back in the late eighties and has continued to grow from there. One of the brightest and most pragmatic people I know, Bill has a long list of writings and publications behind him. One of these is a synopsis of a recent article titled &#8216;What It Means To Lead&#8217; that he has graciously allowed us to include on our blog. Enjoy!</p>
<p>&#8220;Now more than ever our country, our institutions and our communities yearn for exceptional leadership. Whether it&#8217;s the failing banking system, the rising cost of health care, shrinking state budgets or the fact that we are fighting two wars, the solutions we seek will require acts of leadership from many. </p>
<p>This article presents a very pragmatic way to think about leadership that can empower many to lead. Everything we read in the popular press tells us that exceptional leaders are in short supply. A way to address this shortage is to have a clear picture of what we need and expect from our leaders. This will make hiring leaders easier and will also provide a road map for developing future leaders. With this as our guide, we may actually find there are more leaders among us than we realize!</p>
<p>To understand what it means to be a leader, it helps to define the specific tasks, or the &#8220;work&#8221; required to be successful as a leader. The &#8220;work&#8221; associated with being an effective leader can be referred to as the &#8220;7 C&#8217;s. The 7 C&#8217;s are highly interrelated and provide great insight into how effective leaders spend their time and attention.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">1. Establish Clarity</span></h4>
<p>Clarity of purpose is typically part of an overall strategy. An effective leader crafts a clear statement of purpose that defines a reason for existence that goes far beyond self interest or economic gain. It is a statement that speaks to a higher level calling and comes from the heart, not the head. It is a statement that resonates with customers and consumers and motivates employees to excel. </p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">2. Gain Commitment</span></h4>
<p>Once there is clarity, the challenge facing all leaders is how to build commitment. Commitment cannot be legislated if what you seek is intellectual and emotional engagement. It involves being informed, involved, making a difference and having skin in the game.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">3. Ensure Coordination </span></h4>
<p>Coordination is about getting key stakeholders all pulling in the same direction. Effective leaders understand the systemic nature of organizations and know how to leverage their full potential by ensuring alignment and being &#8220;hands off&#8221;.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">4. Build Capacity </span></h4>
<p>Building capacity is how you create the capability to deliver results on a sustained basis. This notion of Capacity comes from the late Joel Henning and Jim Meselko. This involves building business literacy, having access to key information and resources, having choice and choosing accountability.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">5. Facilitate Change</span></h4>
<p>Effective leaders understand the dynamics associated with change and how to manage change to achieve their desired outcomes. They do this by building alliances and reducing resistance.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">6. Demonstrate Confidence </span></h4>
<p>Effective leaders demonstrate a confidence in themselves which gets expressed as respect for those around them. This is based on a set of beliefs and assumptions about people and organizations that are apparent in all of their interactions. These include a true belief in people, operate from a presumption of good will, make courageous choices, acting fully out of integrity, share enthusiasm about possibilities.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;">7. Apply Competence </span></h4>
<p>Competence as described here is not usually considered in discussions of leadership. Competence is the application of whatever technical or business skills are necessary to achieve results. First is context, wherein effective leaders bring or quickly acquire business, technical or industry knowledge that enables them to be effective. Second is the fuel, that is highly effective leaders also have a passion for results. </p>
<p>The work associated with being an effective leader can be daunting. Being a leader is a demanding role that requires hard work and sacrifice. Stepping into a leadership role is a choice one should make with eyes wide open. Those who have already made this choice can use the 7 C&#8217;s to assess their own performance and identify areas to improve upon. Anyone in the position of needing to hire a leader can use the 7 C&#8217;s to assess potential and make a more informed decision. In either case, the 7 C&#8217;s outline a way of behaving that can lead us to the outcomes we hope to achieve.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thank you Bill for these powerful insights. If you truly take the foregoing to heart there is no doubt that you will be better able to lead your organization through these extremely trying times. Your people and organization are counting on you for just this! The question I want to leave with you is &#8220;What do I need to say no to in order to say yes to being an even more powerful leader?&#8221;.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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Here&#8217;s a fascinating blog by one of the world&#8217;s leaders in large-scale real-time organization change, Jake Jacobs with some profound lessons for us all that I just have to share with you. Enjoy!
&#8220;My buddy and colleague Bob Benwick recently posted a blog entry about a talk he had many years ago with my mentor Kathie Dannemiller. We [...]]]></description>
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<p>Here&#8217;s a fascinating blog by one of the world&#8217;s leaders in large-scale real-time organization change, <a href="http://www.windsofchangegroup.com/">Jake Jacobs</a> with some profound lessons for us all that I just have to share with you. Enjoy!</p>
<p>&#8220;My buddy and colleague Bob Benwick recently posted a blog entry about a talk he had many years ago with my mentor <a href="http://www.spoke.com/info/p1QA1N9/KathleenDannemiller">Kathie Dannemiller</a>. We were at an EDS large scale event and Bob walked up to Kathie and asked her whether the group was where we expected them to be at some point during the event. As was her loveable (and point blank) style, Kathie turned to Bob and said, “…they are exactly where they should be! It’s irrelevant where we think they should be! It’s where they are now that we need to work with. They will move forward at a speed that works for them. So what’s your next question?”</p>
<p>Bob says he learned a valuable lesson that day. Having worked with Kathie for a while, I had learned the same lesson years earlier. There’s a joke I heard years ago. The consultant shows up at the wrong venue, works the entire day with the wrong client….and never knows the difference!</p>
<p>That’s an extreme case. But how often do we get caught up with whether we’re “on track” with the agenda? After 20-plus years of doing this work I can’t ever remember actually being on time. A while back I was facilitating a meeting with a colleague. We were two hours behind on the agenda with one hour left in the meeting. My colleague was a little worried. She asked, “What are we going to do to catch up?” I looked at her somewhat puzzled and responded, “What do you mean?” Now she REALLY looked worried! I imagine she was thinking, “So first this guy can’t follow an agenda. Now he can’t even tell time!”</p>
<p>She was looking down at the typed agenda, back at me, and then at her watch. She actually had to do this several times (I’ll admit it took me a short while to figure out what was going on), then I realized, she was measuring our progress against the written agenda, not what was happening in the group. Having learned my lesson from Kathie long ago, I wasn’t worried at all. We were two hours behind and I was able to tell time (a relief to both my colleague, me, and any other clients I’ll ever work with!). The two hours we were behind were only “real” when compared to what we had typed up as the agenda a couple of weeks earlier. The group was right on track with the work they needed to be doing. In fact (possibly miraculously) we even ended the meeting 15 minutes early.</p>
<p><a href="http://bunker.socialpsychology.org/">Barbara Bunker</a>, another mentor of mine, put this same lesson a different way. She used to say, “Structure is helpful. It gives you something to deviate from.” The lesson in all of this? Make sure you have a solid structure for any meeting you’re leading. At the same time remember the purpose you’re aiming to achieve. And most of all, pay attention to the group you’re working with. As Kathie said, &#8220;….they (always) are where they should be!”</p>
<p>Thank you Jake. Clearly Kathy and Barbara have had a profound impact on all those who have had the wonderful opportunity to connect with these two giants in the field of organization development, be they clients or OD consultants. A simple question I&#8217;ll leave with you is &#8220;Do you know the difference?&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 23:02:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bev Benwick</dc:creator>
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Recently I had the opportunity to lunch and celebrate the New Year with a former professor of mine, Marilyn Hamilton, whom I met while doing my graduate work. I have  enormous respect for Marilyn and realized I was absolutely pumped following our lunch together. She has become a very special person in my life and a [...]]]></description>
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<p>Recently I had the opportunity to lunch and celebrate the New Year with a former professor of mine, <a href="http://www.crcresearch.org/node/538">Marilyn Hamilton</a>, whom I met while doing my graduate work. I have  enormous respect for Marilyn and realized I was absolutely pumped following our lunch together. She has become a very special person in my life and a valued &#8216;advisor&#8217;.</p>
<p>Following two years of hard work Marilyn recently completed and published an intriguing book! She enthusiastically shared her exciting research encompassing a &#8216;whole system view&#8217; of creating productive cities that had enormous potential for addressing the diverse needs of the today&#8217;s diverse populations. The result was publication of an exceptionally worthy and forward thinking book entitled <a href="http://www.newsociety.com/bookid/4022">&#8216;Integral Cities, Evolutionary Intelligences for the Human Hive&#8217;</a> . Powerfully aligned with the field of urban studies, Marilyn mentioned, &#8220;It&#8217;s been extremely interesting to hear the many unsolicited and exciting responses to my book and how its application and meaning have actually extended far beyond what my intent had initially been&#8221; (<a href="http://integralcity.com/Ezine%20Files/MH%20I-City%20Iview%20ILR%20Jordan.mp3">listen Marilyn</a>.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read with delight an interview that Marilyn had engaged in while promoting her book. It was obvious from the content of the interview that the application of her model was totally applicable to a diversity of today&#8217;s public and private sector organizations. Using two of her favorite expressions, Marilyn and I engaged in our rich conversation around conformity enforcers and diversity generators. What great terms! She had been able to capture the blinding glimpse of the obvious around how readily the bee community and their various roles truly show up in all organizations.</p>
<p>Marilyn made note of the fact that the energy of conformity enforcers, that she claims make up 90 % of a hive community, quickly diminishes over the course of each season as the bees gather resources from the same flower patch. She explained that the inner judges of a hive, measure the return and withhold and/or reallocate limited and precious fuel as pollen amounts decrease. Adjusting the budget mid-stream so to speak? She went on to explain that as the conformity enforcers eventually accept the need to change, they make the necessary shift to new resources and adjust to the new findings of the diversity generators….a new flower patch. The outcome for the hive……. new found energy!  The roles of both the conformity enforcers and diversity generators are vital to the survival of the hive….and to any business community for that matter!  Presto, explaining the behavior of many an organization in today&#8217;s world of white water change and transition.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found the &#8216;hive&#8217; metaphor an exciting prism to view organizational leadership from with huge possibilities for further exploration and study. Clearly, bees must be doing something right to coexist in a container the size of my shoulder bag and yet readily adapt to change!</p>
<p>How readily do the conformity enforcers in your organization embrace the work of your diversity generators? How critical in today&#8217;s world is the role of diversity generators who hold enormous potential for revitalizing the energy of others in each and every organization trying to survive and prosper? I would love to hear your thoughts and feelings. Go for it!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 03:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Benwick</dc:creator>
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&#8220;You&#8217;ve got to watch out for those organizational antibodies!&#8221; said the former Head of Pathology for the Vancouver General Hospital and the British Columbia&#8217;s Children&#8217;s Hospital, Dr. David Hardwick, who I was sitting down with at the time. Dave had been instrumental in leading the establishment of the BC Children&#8217;s Hospital and we had built [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve got to watch out for those organizational antibodies!&#8221; said the former Head of Pathology for the <a href="http://www.vch.ca/">Vancouver General Hospital </a>and the <a href="http://www.bcchildrens.ca/default.htm">British Columbia&#8217;s Children&#8217;s Hospital</a>, <a href="http://books.google.ca/books?id=1vXnt0fkFa4C&amp;pg=PA560&amp;lpg=PA560&amp;dq=dr.+david+hardwick,+pathologist,+bc+childrens+hosptial,+ancouver,+bc&amp;source=web&amp;ots=PA8uEBt5hk&amp;sig=lSuoIRsKtD33AW8XtSL4MpxP_q4&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=book_result&amp;resnum=8&amp;ct=result#PPA560,M1">Dr. David Hardwick</a>, who I was sitting down with at the time. Dave had been instrumental in leading the establishment of the BC Children&#8217;s Hospital and we had built a strong relationship in furthering the organization&#8217;s mandate as the leading pediatric tertiary care facility on Canada&#8217;s west coast. I was then the Vice President &#8211; Human Resources and Strategic Management and Dave was a key internal organization client. Whenever possible we tried to get together and have one of those rare but powerful conversations over a cup of coffee about &#8216;life and times&#8217;. This was one of those get togethers that I&#8217;ll never forget.</p>
<p>Dave had made the &#8216;organizational antibody&#8217; comment in a discussion around a number of joint-venture innovative initiatives in support of the physician community within the facility, and in particular the pathologists. In our discussion, we had come to a  blinding glimpse of the obvious that innovation in fact was a particularly powerful form of change. Dave, who was the Head of Pathology and the President of a world-wide organization of pathologists at the time, felt that not only were we being highly innovative with a number of initiatives we were leading, but it also had a unique dark side. Innovation also creates a considerable threat to some groups within the organization. Many of these groups simply felt they never received enough care, attention and resources to support their medical practice areas. Not an unusual disposition. For innovation to effectively take hold and to be sustained requires additional resources. Where do these resources (funding, people, space, capital equipment, etc) come from? Yes, from others within the organization. Thus the threat innovation unexpectedly creates even though it is so often promoted. Dave felt strongly (directly reflecting his professional background) that &#8216;organizational antibodies&#8217; can always be expected to surface when something new is interjected into the system and &#8216;organizational antibodies&#8217; will, not if, attempt to &#8216;remove or extricate&#8217; anyone leading or anything related to the innovation itself &#8211; the foreign intervention &#8211; that are perceived as direct threats to their own existence and sustainability. This is what&#8217;s often referred to as a &#8216;blinding glimpse of the obvious&#8217;.</p>
<p>It was clear from our discussion that if you are attempting to create and lead innovation (pro-active change), not only do you need to address managing normal resistance to change, one needs to thoughtfully and planfully address &#8216;organizational antibodies&#8217; that will (again, not if) surface. Thank you Dave for co-creating this very powerful leadership and organizational change concept.</p>
<p>Of course the foregoing is not unique to Health Care organizations. I&#8217;ve seen it in every private and public sector organization operating domestically and globally that we have had the pleasure to coach within. So, where do &#8216;organizational antibodies&#8217; show up in your organization? What change are you currently leading within your organization (small or big) and where are &#8216;organizational antibodies&#8217; surfacing? What are  the possibilities for turning this into an opportunity in disguise and creating a successful win-win approach? We would enjoy hearing your insights and observations.</p>
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