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Posts Tagged ‘career’
Saturday, March 21st, 2009 by Bob Benwick

“Given the current market and the organization’s poor revenues over the past year, I wasn’t surprised when they gave me notice of termination.” Tony, a senior marketing executive with a large petrochemical firm had just been let go after 15 years with the organization. “So how are you feeling in this moment?”, I asked. “Well, even though I had guessed my number was coming up, it still came as a complete shock. Not only to me, but to my family as well! It’s been a long time since I’ve looked for a job and I’m not sure where to start.” “Well based on what I know about you so far, I’m confident you will do well in promoting yourself, and strongly believe that you’ll succeed in your campaign to find a new job!” I continued, “Let’s really drill down and build a solid foundation for you to move forward confidently and powerfully.”
“What is it you believe you need to do to succeed?” I asked him. Tony is a very outgoing individual with a naturally positive outlook that he would have to lean on as he moved forward with his career transition. “Well, there is no doubt that the way I will look at this whole situation will form the foundation of my job search campaign and probably be the reason why I’ll succeed at it. Plus, I’d like to make solid progress toward landing on my feet in another position as soon as practical and bank as much of my severance as possible!” he said with conviction.
“How do you plan to navigate through the forthcoming job search challenges and implement a powerful campaign for yourself?” I inquired. “I probably need to start at the beginning!” he said facetiously. “Say that again?”, I responded. “Seriously, I sense that I need to begin taking some kind of inventory of my strengths and get clear on the work I truly love to do, getting some clarity around what it is I want to really achieve, and preparing to package and market myself.” Tony stated.
“It appears that you already have good clarity and a great jump start on how you plan to market yourself and build a strong network of contacts”, I commented, and went on, “What else do you need to focus on?”. “For sure, I’ll need to also take a hard look at my interview and negotiating skills. I just know, there’ll be no room for laying back and taking it easy, not until I’ve nailed down a good opportunity”.” So, how do you need to be as you move forward?”, I asked. Tony, quickly responded with a resounding, “I need to be thoughtful, thorough and persistent in everything I do from here on in. I also need to be physically, psychologically and spiritually at my best!”
With this, Tony and I coached and collaborated around key steps in his career transition plan that would be needed to assure his success. The following capture what we coached around and Tony made happen.
- Completed A Full Inventory of Himself: Identified his past successes, current strengths, over-all work and leadership styles, and personal preferences and became expert in the product – himself.
- Clarified His Career Direction: got great clarity, became focused and realistic all based firmly on his key strengths.
- Professionally Packaged & Presented Himself: developed powerful résumés (professional brochures) that showcased him professionally.
- Developed a Laser-Focused Marketing Campaign: created a clear strategy for going after those industries, organizations, roles and key decision makers in a way that took full advantage of his limited time, available resources and assured a successful outcome of his market campaign.
- Created A Powerful Strategic Network: engaged in a highly planful and results producing Business relationships building campaign that was vital to his job search success.
- Designed Highly Influential Campaign Correspondence: designed and developed a range of professional search campaign letters from introducing himself to following up on key opportunities.
- Partnering with His Coach, Practiced His Interviewing and Negotiating Skills: deepened his emotional intelligence that included his self-regulation, communication (particularly asking and listening) skills, and his empathy accuracy and compassion abilities that proved essential to converting opportunities into ready job offers.
- Assured His Success In The New Job: We worked together to assure successful leadership transition into the new role by taking steps that would accelerate his transition from being an initial net consumer of the new organization’s resources to a net contributor in as short a time as practical.
Tony was amazingly thorough and persistent in managing his job search campaign. He worked as hard for Tony Inc., 5 days a week, 8 hours a day, as he had for his previous employer. This dramatically contributed to his achieving, and even exceeding, what he truly wanted. In his case it took him five and a half months. He was eventually offered and accepted a position more senior and at a higher total compensation level than where he had been previously working. Nothing to sneeze at! I loved partnering with him as his career transition coach during that part of his life’s journey.
What were the blinding glimpses of the obvious for you in Tony’s experience? What would you add to the foregoing? What part causes you personal trepidation? What would you do differently if you were to do this?
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Friday, March 20th, 2009 by Bob Benwick

“Listen, I feel confident about most things, but terminating some of my staffs’ employment isn’t really one of them. I don’t want to be one of those managers that simply say, ‘nice tie, you’re fired’!” said Frank, a senior operations vice-president I’ve been coaching. “Given the white-water economy we’re faced with, some serious people decisions have to be made around here, that will probably include cutting some people loose. Again, I really don’t want to do this. However, I’d like to make sure I don’t make any major errors when the rubber hits the ground.” Frank and I agreed that letting people go is more common than not these days and this action needs to be managed competently and with compassion for both the organization and those folks who will be departing.
“So, what would be some key payoffs of your handling these employment terminations well?” I asked Frank. Being a relatively quiet individual by nature, he took some time to think about it before he responded. The following benefits surfaced during our coaching discussion:
- reduced trauma and the adverse impact of the event to the individuals affected
- avoid some serious downsides when thoughtfully providing the difficult news and hopefully maintain healthy relationships following the event
- minimized potential problems for the organization itself in terms of a well handled meeting, sending a positive message to those remaining, and avoiding unintended comments
- Being in service of the departing employees getting a positive jump start toward landing on their feet as quickly as practical with their job search campaigns
Based on the foregoing, Frank and I further coached around what some of the logical key steps might be when engaging in the process. These included:
DECOMPRESSION: choose an appropriate time and a neutral setting for the termination meeting (not in his office)
SET THE CONTEXT: authentically and briefly express genuine concern for the organization’s current situation and future prospects
GET TO THE POINT: state the departure very quickly, clearly and succinctly.
TERMINATION PACKAGE AND SUPPORT: explain the termination package, including benefits coverage and any career transition coaching support being made available, and offering to support the individual wherever practical.
DOCUMENTATION: ensuring a letter outlining the specifics of the termination package, including a release document, be given to the individual so that they can study the letter and package later when the dust starts to settle. “ LASER LISTEN: Allow time for the individual to react and raise questions of clarification, yet being clear the decision has been made and is final
COMPASSION AND SUPPORT: offer moral support, but not in terms of reversing the decision that has been made.
TERMINATION TRANSITION: following thorough pre-planning, discuss the specific details concerning the individual’s transition out of the organization.
CAREER TRANSITION COACH: introduce the separating individual to the assigned R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES career transition coach or internal Human Resource Management specialist. Meeting Length: total meeting time to be kept to 10 to 15 minutes max! A longer meeting could very well deteriorate, and end up creating unnecessary concerns.
AFTER THE MEETING: once the departed individual has worked with their R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES coach and prepared for their employment search they may want to meet with Frank for some information, advice or suggestions relative to their job search campaign, or they may want to approach him to provide a reference. Here, the R. W. BENWICK ASSOCIATES coach can help to smoothly facilitate the terminated employee to move forward quickly and reduce any related discomfort experienced by Frank.
Frank felt quite confidant at the end of our coaching meeting on the topic and now knew where he needed to spend more time deepening his understanding, planning, organizing and preparing to handle this difficult task thoughtfully and compassionately.
What else do you think Frank needs to consider? Other potential problems? What else might he do to prevent these or to minimize any adverse consequences should they arise? Your thoughts and feelings around the foregoing would be most appreciated.
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Tuesday, February 17th, 2009 by Bev Benwick

“Treat your résumé as your professional brochure!” was a response I recently gave a client during one of our telephone coaching calls. He wanted coaching around marketing himself in this phenomenally difficult economy. His objective was to powerfully promote himself as a senior leader. This more often than not comes forward as a request from many of my clients who are either doing well within their current role and wish to move higher in their organization, anticipating eventually leaving on their own volition, anxious about their organization engaging in future downsizing or have recently departed their organization.
Similar to when one is contemplating a product purchase, most decision makers want to quickly access a concise summary of the key benefits, qualilities and potential added value of the product or service being considered. The key decision making information is typically available in hardcopy or electronic brochure formats. “This is no different for you” I shared with my client. “You’re the product! Just like other high end products or services that are presented to potential buyers in a powerful and impactful way, so it is that you need to market and present yourself. Would it be beneficial for you to create just such a powerful brochure to market and present yourself? Do you want to substantively increase your chances of having your ‘professional brochure’ put on to the ‘yes pile’ as opposed to the ‘maybe’ or ‘no’ applicant piles?” The answer was a quick and unreserved yes.
As my client and I coached in real-time over the phone, I asked him a series of specific questions to advance his foregoing agenda. From these we quickly developed a draft version of his chronological résumé. My contribution focused on being a ‘process expert and coach’ in service of his developing this critically important professional marketing document. My client’s focus was clearly being the ‘content expert’. Within about two hours he had a substantive document that he could quickly move forward with. What remained was his applying final content touches and being prepared to come back with his finished document so that we could then quickly create a ‘Functional’ version at our following coaching session should he consider exploring opportunities in other industries.
Recalling our conversation, the following are few of the key points shared with him as we went through the process. Some folks spend weeks or months attempting to do just this.
- Keep the Document Short: Keep the résumé short and to the point. No more than 3 pages for senior professionals and executives.
- Maximize White Space: Don’t fool with the margins! Make it an absolute breeze for the reader to go through and see the key points . . . bingo, bango, bongo and over to the ‘yes’ pile.
- Create An Overarching Statement: After inserting the name and contact information, tell them exactly who you are professionally, what key areas of expertise you bring with you, where these came from and how you will add value to the organization once on board. This is the most critical part of your résumé!
- Apply Bob’s Rule of Two: Other than your overarching statement at the top, never ever go beyond two lines in any other part of your résumé . . . keep it simple, powerful and very very easy read!
- Keep It Results Oriented: Your résumé should scream results and high contribution to potential employers! Otherwise, why hire you? Use the CAR approach to describe each of your key achievements (Challenge/Action/Results).
- Finish With A Bang!: Now that you’ve told them that you not only can and will do the job, don’t hesitate to now share with them that you also fit in nicely with the way they do business by describing your personal qualities and core personal competencies. This is the icing on the cake that nudges the decision maker in the right direction.
- Judiciously Use Color: Thoughtfully apply the use of color, particularly in key headings, that can be highly effective in making your résumé stick out from others and increase its chances of ending up in the ‘yes’ applicant pile.
- Create A Range of Alternative Résumés: Be prepared to develop a range of alternative résumés for you to pick and choose from depending on each presenting opportunity. Never use the same one for every opportunity that arises!
These are some of the key considerations when developing your professional brochure. Hopefully, you will find the foregoing both intriguing and in service of your future success and fulfillment.
Let me leave a question with you. “What do you now have to say no to in the development of your personal brochure in order for a potential employer to say ‘yes’?”
Other related concerns you may have to contend with might involve your supporting marketing correspondence, focused market research, powerful strategic networking, highly competent interviewing, nimbly handling negotiations, and assuring successful value-added leadership transition into the next role. But foregive me for I digress . . . those are possible future blogs. Are they of potential interest?
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Saturday, November 22nd, 2008 by Bob Benwick
Brad had come a very long way. He had bottomed out as a result of losing his senior leadership position with a large corporation, navigated through a difficult divorce, and depleted most of his hard earned resources. Through shear determination, persistence and hard work with the added support of executive coaching, he was able to replenish his burnt-through assets and reestablish himself in an even more successful and fulfilling career. Brad had developed the ability to powerfully connect with and truly accept himself. This also contributed dramatically to achieving the same with others in his life and in his new leadership role. He had discovered his true purpose in life and built the confidence required to address the challenges that would most certainly present themselves in the next phase of his personal and professional journey.
In one of our weekly executive coaching calls Brad exclaimed, “You know Bob, now that I’ve got my career back on track I’m ready to explore a relationship with someone special in my life and I’m not sure what the next steps are. Can we go there ?” The result was to work through clarifying what that special lady would be like when she showed up in his life. Having accomplished just this, Brad shared “this was a great exercise to go through, but how and where do I find her?” We discussed this at length, and then I suggested, “What if you now put this on the backburner for the time being and get on with the life and career you’ve so capably created.” At first his response was incredulous, and asked “So why did I do all this work to just put it aside?” I instinctively responded, “Trust me my friend, that special lady will show up and tap you on the shoulder when you absolutely least expect it!” I simply trusted my intuition and blurted it out. Because of the deep relationship we had developed during our coaching relationship, he agreed and carried on with his caeer and other personal priorities. Guess what? Just as you would have expected, he literally bumped into her 3 months later at a social event. In one of our calls shortly thereafter he came on to one of our regular coaching calls completely energized, exuberant, over the moon, saying . . . . “She showed up and she’s exactly what I’ve been looking for. Can you believe it?”
But! Isn’t there always a but involved? Three months or so into their relationship Brad showed up on a coaching call and was clearly not his normal upbeat self. With some delicate probing, he shared that “my girlfriend and I were discussing where they might go out for dinner the previous evening. I asked her where she wanted to go. She then asked me where I wanted to go. I said anywhere where you want to go. Then she blew up and dumped all over me, accusing me of not ever stating my own preferences.” He went on to say, “I’m not sure this is going to really work out (between us)!” This was toward the end of our call when I typically leave my clients with an inquiry—a powerful question—for them to explore and write their thoughts down to be shared at our next scheduled coaching meeting. For Brad the inquiry I left was “What’s in the fear my friend?” I simply trusted my intuition and again blurted it out. He found this question viscerally intriguing and agreed to work with it.
Our follow up meeting was amazing for both Brad and myself(I am constantly learning from my clients). I asked Brad, “So let’s visit the answer to the inquiry I left you.” He very calmly and confidently said that “The inquiry turned his life around.” Now I was taken aback and asked him to go on. Brad said, “Do you remember when we explored the concept of the ‘Three Yous’?”. I asked him to remind me. “Well,
- The first you is the Spiritual You. It’s the real you. It’s my spirit engaged in a human experience through me.
- The second you is the Adult You. It’s the person on the other end of this phone right now who is very capable of taking care of myself, my life and career, and those around me that I care and love.
- The third you, is the Child You. It’s my little boy, Bradley, who agreed to so many things so long ago when I was growing up that are both helpful and not so helpful now as an adult, as a professional, as partner.”
He went on to explain that “My Child is constantly telling me that I should do this, I shouldn’t do that, I’m not tall enough, smart enough. My child can be at times anxious about the future, fearful about what is happening in the moment, sad at times, and sometimes even feeling a sense of shame. As a result the little boy in me can often get in the way of my making important changes in my life and work and tries to keep things the way they are. By the way, my Child also gets excited, is playful, as well as adventurous. The thing I’ve learned from my coaching is that only I can take care of him when he gets concerned. By going quickly inside myself when my Child is trying to take over and interfere, I’ve learned how to tell him what he most wants to hear. How much I love him that I’ll protect him, and that he doesn’t have to worry about me. I encourage him in these moments to leave things in my very capable adult hands and go play and enjoy himself while I take care of business. Doing this in my minds-eye within nano-seconds helps to quickly reduce much of my anxiousness and stress, and allows me to powerfully move forward with the life or job challenge that I face in those moments. Yes, I now make a point of ensuring my Adult self manages my relationships and not my Child.”
“I got it” was my response, “But what has that to do with your current relationship?” Brad put it very eloquently by stating, “My Child had taken over my personal relationship with my girlfriend because he was afraid of being abandoned again!” He then declared, “As of this evening, I’m going to share with my girlfriend what I just discovered about myself and let her know that she will be dealing with my Adult from here on in!” Well the bottom line was that he did just that and they’ve now been happily married for a number of years. He has exceeded all the possibilities he created—personally and professionally!
I’ve found variations of the foregoing situation with other clients, particularly those leading and managing within organizations. These organizational relationships include bosses, peers, subordinates and others inside and outside the organization. It might explain in part why people sometimes derail in those organizational relationships and get into a very dangerous and slippery slope at work. These key relationships often end up deteriorating, and possibly, end in termination of their employment. Is this something you’ve observed? What’s been your experience? How has this shown up for you? Have you seen this phenomenon manifest itself in significant others around you? I would enjoy hearing what your feelings and thoughts are on the matter?
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